Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (Melodramaaaaaaaaaaaaaa)

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood is  two episodes in after last nights show.  Were you watching??  I have to be honest.  I feel like this show is a little weak.  The drama is unfolding, but at what cost??

It seems like friendships are being broken just for camera time and drama!  I mean Ray J's assistant is clearly playing both sides when it comes to her friendship with he and Teairra.  She talked mad mess behind Teairra's back on the first episode.  Then she turns around and calls herself defending her during T's spas out at the RayJ.com party, but turns right around talks mess on her again in the midst of the commotion.   Wait a minute tho...  THEN SHE IS GOIN TO BE BACK TO DEFENDING HER AGAIN WHEN SHE MEETS WITH RAY NEXT EPISODE!!!   Oooool I wish I had emojis on this laptop!!!!  These chicks clearly never were friends.  I think Teairra should see that the assistant chick was only on her team while she was on Ray J's team.  The two girls may have thought they were friends, but they NEVER were and they should just leave it at that.  (Only observations not facts!)


Now for the melodrama.  IF TEAIRRA DOES NOT STOP WITH HER RAH RAH ANTICS!!!  I just feel like if you are tough you don't have to prove it all of the time.  If you are an ass kicker it will show when you kick some ass.  People will begin to recognize that you kick ass and some may fall back and some may kick your ass back! lol I'm just saying.  It seems like in every scene Teairra has to basically make it known "that she ain't the one."  This makes her appear to be somewhat insecure, and somewhat of a bully.

 From the outside looking in however, I see that Teairra may have some serious trust issues, and from the looks of things she may have every right.  It seems like she has been played on all angles from friendships to relationships.  This is what probably makes her lash out.  Now I'm no Psychologist but I can understand when a person feels like they have to be on attack mode because of distrust.  The smart thing would be to remove yourself from the situation rather than lose yourself in it.  JAREBEARSAYS  Teairra's talent cannot be denied, but this show can either hurt or help her career.  It's not looking good tho T.  Leave the heartbreak in the past and move forward boo.  If you are going to use Love & Hip Hop to rebuild your career and fan base, then give these women and girls out here something positive to look to.  We all love a little drama.  That is why we watch, but we also love to see people prosper so get to work!

Fizz is having baby mama drama.  I don't even think it is cool.  I say this because his bm is coo coo!!!  She cannot be concerned about her son.  She is causing unecessary drama all in the name of her son.  She is coming between Fizz's two year relationship.  It is sad to say, but the girl is a mess.  She is not over Fizz and anyone watching knows it.  She still hasn't asked to see her son in all of this, but shes having meetings with the girlfriend.  IS THIS CHICK SERIOUS???  Actions speak LOUD!  How are you calling this girl to a restaurant to sit across from her and call her names.  It was so ratchet.  She doesn't even know Fizz's girl but the girl is raising her child.  Why can't she thank her for being there when she isn't able to be.  For making sure her son gets home from school safely.  I don't get it.  Why make problems where there should be none?  This chick is looney.  That's all there is to that.


Yung Berg is a talented producer... #Thatsall


Souljah Boy...Uggghhhhh I don't even like to say that name.  It's no shade...ok yes it is!  That dude gross's me out.  Anyway...Why is Nia surprised about the info she received about he and Karrine??  You have been dating this dude on and off for 8 years and everything he has done in those years have been the focus of hip hop media.  I mean it's not wrong to feel hopeful that some one can change or be better, but COME ONNNNNNNNN this clown is not that person.  Not at this point in his life anyway.  He was so quick to find the dumbest reason to dismiss her at the studio when she came to talk to him.  It was not hard to see that he knew he was wrong, and chose not to deal with it by making her feel bad about it.    I hate to be negative, but some of these people just take you there!!




All of the artist on the show should rethink their purpose before they continue to down grade themselves.  Reality tv is a fad and can be gone tomorrow like the last big thing.  Will these stars be around after reality tv or will they fade to black... I guess we'll have to wait to see.  I'm not going to go on because there will be more to discuss next week.  So if you didn't get it anywhere else at least you know....

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Atlanta Exes (Things get better before they get worse!!!)

Atlanta Exes get's better each week.  This weeks episode was very heartfelt if I do say so myself.  Torrei decided to set her differences ALL THE WAY aside and once again help Tomeka with one of her business ventures.  Torrei, who seems to like things organized and planned out became frustrated yet again when she realized Tomeka's lack of planning for her latest event.  For Tomeka to have an assistant, she is sure seeming like she is wasting her money if he is being paid.  But that's another story...





Monyetta Shaw (Neyo's ex) had some concerns about no longer being able to give birth to children since she and her former fiancee agreed they didn't want anymore children together.  The sad thing about her situation is that she and Ne-Yo are no longer together.  Monyetta is heartbroken that she may not be able to conceive a child with a future prince charming.  Monyetta visits her doctor who surprisingly has great news for her.  The Doctor made her aware that he could reverse her procedure and that there was a high chance of it being possible for her to have more children.  In fact he told her the chance was 85%!  I'm sure most people watching felt for Monyetta and were almost as happy as she was to find out the possibilities!  God will work when you don't even realize it!!

Christina has been having some doubts about her decision to break things off with Willie.  I was so happy to see that she had doubts.  I personally think that when a person has chemistry with someone they should give it a try.  Christina has admitted to being attached (for lack of a better word) to her ex husband Cee Lo, but after hearing the news that Cee Lo may be engaged, I think her reality kicked in.  Cee Lo is telling her who she can and cannot see, but he is engaged???? What a jerk!  lol but seriously though, Christina decided that she needs to be open to dating so that she can move on, and why not try it with a guy she connected with!  Willie oozes charm and confidence, and Christina clearly melts when she is around him.  All 6 foot 8 of Willie may be a new look for Christina, and it looks good!!  Cee Lo had the nerve to tell her she was't allowed to date Willie!!! LOL That is because he know his little ass can't do nothing with him! HaHa I'm only kidding, OR AM I?? Let's keep watching to see how this love triangle pans out!


Sheree had some emotional drama going on with her father.  Sheree and her father have been estranged for the last 15 years.  She wasn't even sure if her father was alive or not.  After traveling to Madison, Ga where
she last knew her father to be, Sheree was on board an emotional roller coaster.  She met a first cousin who told her that her father was back living in Kentucky and after reaching out to family members she was able to find her Dad.  Thankfully he was doing better than she had been forewarned and although he suffered some memory loss, he knew exactly who his daughter was.  This mad Sheree very happy and we all watched as she shared a beautiful moment with her father at the senior residence where he is living.


Next week the drama will pock back up, so try to let this weeks episode marinate so that we can remember that there are some positive things about the show that we do like!!  Sometimes I like to carry on, but I think I said it all for now... You may have heard it here and there... but right here you heard the best, and
that's because....

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Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (New City, Same Game!)

Bye Bye Atlanta...

The series premiere of Love and Hip Hop took place last night  on vh1.  The newest addition to the franchise just happens to be in the city where dreams come to life.  Yeah that's right Hollywood, California.  With all that goes on in these television shows, you would think that the fact that they are filming this new series in Hollywood would give people a chance to actually see these artist hard at work on their careers.  WELL OF COURSE THAT IS NOT THE CASE!  Mona Scott is clearly not interested in shedding too much positive light on the participants of these shows and it is evident that these artist are just looking to maintain fame rather than actually rebuilding their careers.  TV IS ALL ABOUT RATINGS.  Most of them are lacking in the career department, which is why they even get involved with these shows.
                    @RayJ

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood stars Ray J who most of you know is an R&B singer/actor.  He formerly dated singer Teairra Marie, who is also a cast member.  She and Ray J are no longer in a relationship.  In fact Ray J actually has a new girlfriend who is also a part of the show.  I GUESS Teairra GOT THE MEMO A LITTLE TOO LATE because she acted out all up and through this episode.  Teairra is highly pissed off that Ray J has moved on.  She had it in her head that there was still a chance for her and Ray, but Ray shut that down.  In normal idiotic fashion Ray decides to invite Teairra to an event he had where his girlfriend would be as well.  His assistant Morgan warned Ray that it was a bad idea, but who does Ray J listen to??? So Teairra shows up, gets taunted by Ray's girlfriend, Princess Love, and Teairra get's in full attack mode!!!  Drinks flew and blows were thrown before security had to immediately stop things from going any further.

              @MissTMari

Teairra is a beautiful girl, but something aint right with her.  It could just be the Detroit in her, but she seems broken.  She has a very hard exterior for such a pretty girl and her anger is written all over her face.  I am no Dr, Phil and TRUST I have issues of my own that need to be worked on, but They put it on tv for us so Imma talk about it.  Teairra can really sing so why isn't she putting out music???  Well she admitted that she was dropped from her label, but looking at how she is acting so far on this show.  She may be scaring people like my FAVE used to do! lol Yall know who I'm talking about.  Teairra if you ever see this blog I just want you to know that we all got a lil crazy in us so I'm not judging you boo.  I just want to hear the music so please get back to it!  THANKS :)               @1OMARION

Omarion is on the show with his girlfriend, Apryl Jones, who is now his babies mother as well.  Now we all know Love & Hip Hop can't exist without some body letting their crazy mother get involved.  In the history of Love & Hip Hop you know that it takes a ratchet mother to stand behind a talented son and get all up in the middle of his ADULT LIFE!  Omarion's mother has made it clear what her role will be in the show right away.  WE SEE U MOMMA, but do we have to??????????????  IJS Anyway Omarion and his girlfriend seem to be happy together and since the shows taping they have welcomed their child into the world.  Omarion is pretty established in the music industry.  He is currently signed to Maybach Music Group where he will be releasing his upcoming album.  O seemed to get a lot of negative comments from people on twitter last night.  But like a man with good sense he brushed the haters off and retweeted plenty of positive tweets from his fans.  When you are talented and aware of what you have offered throughout your career the haters can't be anything but motivators.  Omarion needs to just stay focused and keep up the great work.  We see you!

Souljah Boy...
I'm not gonna go there.  I'd rather just watch the hot mess unfold.  I will say this though... Teddy Riley we are praying for you and your daughter.  She seems like a very nice girl who may want to consider a new boyfriend.  It's no shade but my daughter WOULD NOTTTTTTTTTT even be able to think about dating that guy!

             @AirFizzo

Fizz formerly of B2K has made his way back into the limelight.  He is definitely having some baby momma drama, which is sad because he appears to be responsible for his son.  I am most interested in his story line because a lot of black fathers do not get portrayed well on television.  It would be great to see a man step up to the plate while still trying to work hard and provide.  Idk what Fizz has been doing since B2K but he still has his looks and obviously still has his connections so we will just bid him good luck.  Hopefully this show will bring good things to him.  His baby mother on the other hand seems a little janky!!  YEAH I SAID IT!!! She a lil gold digger who doesn't seem too concerned about her son.  She is clearly more pissed off that she isn't with Fizz.  What the hell is up with these chicks still thinking that in 2014 having a baby will keep you and your man together?????  #NORELATIONSHIPGOALS


Were you sucked in by this new show?? Will you all be watching each week??  Let me know, and let me know your thoughts and opinions on this cast.  We can have discussion if you just comment below!!  Before I get out of her I will leave u with a little reminder.  If you didn't get the story anywhere else you know....

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Preachers of L.A. (Family First)

I have grown to enjoy this show.  I was hesitant at first because I was't sure of the shows angle.  Were they exploiting the church?  Were they just trying to flash their money???  I even asked if they were really ordained!!!  One thing I did not consider in the beginning was that they were people just like you and I.  Yes guys preachers are people too! lol

Since the show first aired last year I have noticed a lot of viewers have had some of the same feelings I had, and via social media I have also noticed a lot of changes in thoughts and opinions.  I feel like these preachers came to television for a reason.  They want to spread the news about God and they want to show their lives in the process.  Anyone watching can see that these men and their families are just like everyone else in a sense.  We all have issues and we all want to overcome things in life.  I think this show portrays these families in a good light.

People need to understand that just because someone preaches the word of God, that doesn't mean they don't have to provide for their families.  Success should be for anyone who reaches for it.  If God allows a man or woman to have the finer things then why shouldn't that be okay??  A preacher has a very important job.  In my opinion one of the most important, and as long as they are doing their duties in a respectable manner, how they build their career around that should be their business.  All preachers are not poor and all preachers are not rich so somewhere in between all of that we as a people need to worry about our own salvation.  A lot of us lack in that we are so pressed about what one person has going on we can't even come out of our own mess.

Last night's episode was one of the most inspirational in the history of the show!!  To see Bishop Gibson and his wife be so spiritually moved to help out their family members was a blessing in its self.  A lot of people
will say that their decision shouldn't have been so hard or that they should have just given the house to their niece in the first place.  To those people I say this.  "It is not always as easy as it seems (this thing called life).  We all lose focus and fall short and sometimes we have to come out of things in our time.  Bishop Gibson's sister Shaun made her choices and so this caused her daughter to have to go through things.  God places people in our lives for reasons and at times that are not always to be explained.  Bishop Gibson and First Lady Lavette did a wonderful thing, and the fact that they were able to is even more wonderful, but it was in God's time.  It's easy to say that they could have been gave Erica and her boys the home to stay in, but who is to say Erica was always ready for that responsibility.  Her time is clearly now, and she was ever so grateful and appreciative.

       @WayneChaneyJr
Pastor Wayne and his wife Myesha Chaney were also dealing with some serious family issues this episode.  Pastor Wayne's mother came to him to tell him that she had recently had a disagreement with her other son Caleb.  Caleb who is younger than Wayne seems to be struggling with some personal issues regarding the love and treatment he receives from his mother.  Now I won't go to deep because I only know what I see on tv, but it does seem like there may be some underlying issues, and that it may take some time to get through them.  Pastor Wayne wants to get to the bottom of things because he doesn't want the negativity to continue between his family members.  It is sad to see that he gets pulled into the drama because he is successful, but that is nothing but the devil trying to mess up a good thing!!                                                                      
WONT THE DEVIL BRING SOME MESS TO YOU?!?!?!  Any way... First Lady Myesha threw an amazing surprise birthday party for her husband, and even with the little drama of Caleb showing up uninvited the party was still a success.                                                                                            
                                                @MyeshaChaney

It was all the Twitter last night when people saw that Pastor Wayne asked his brother to leave the party because he didn't want his mother to feel uncomfortable.  Fans of the show were really upset that he wanted his brother to leave.  I, along with many others think that was the right decision.  He made a decision based off of a recent blow up.  If he didn't ask his brother to leave that would just leave room for a possible confrontation, and no one knows but them how that could have turned out!                                    

All in all last nights episode was moving and I felt blessed watching!  I think I will do more post about the show in the future!! What do you guys think??  Well my good people I will be bringing the happenings soon enough, but BE SURE to remember if u didn't get it anywhere else u know......

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R&B Divas LA (Shade, T, and more Shade in Puerto Rico!)

The Ladies have finally made it to Puerto Rico, but not without the drama of course...

A few issues came about as the Divas prepared for their upcoming performance in Puerto Rico.  They were assigned a choreographer and began rehearsals, but it was not all smooth sailing.  Before they left for Puerto Rico, Chante was absent from their first rehearsal with the choeographer which left a bad taste in the mouths of the other ladies.  Most of the Divas seemed to be more upset that Chante wasn't there and that she wasn't communicating to them as to why.  Michel'le showed up for rehearsal, but had to leave very early because she had to pick up her child.  Although she didn't stay she did show up, and in the long run was able to learn her parts without complaint or too much confusion.

Chante has been having some leagal issues with her former husband, Kenny Lattimore.  Kenny and Chante's issues were brought to the forefront on season one and have been carried over into this season.  Chante was

in a rough custody battle where her ex wanted sole custody of her son.  She fought long and hard and was glad to announce that she had won.  She first brought the news to Claudette and Leela when she arrived in Puerto Rico two days after the rest of the women.  This was also cause for the thick tension that developed between Chante and the other Divas.


Leela, Chrisette and Lil Mo have been outspoken on their thoughts about Chante's actions and her lack of communication.  They all seem to feel that she is not being a friend by withholding information from them and also by not responding to them when they have reached out to her.

THIS IS WHERE I MAY SOUND A LITTLE OPINIONATED BUT HEY....

Chante has been coming off as a real DIVA in the negative sense of the word.  Now it can be said that she is going through some things and sometimes people do take things out on others without even realizing it, but Chante is in her bag for real.  She has already made the ladies feel uncomfortable when she introduced them to the song she had written and included them in her own janky little way.  Then she decides to miss rehearsal (which she may have had no control over) and when she finally did arrive she wanted to make changes and take back control when the other ladies were already rehearsed and used to her not being there.  If she didn't choreograph the dance in the first place why would she even have the nerve to try to make changes and she still has catching up to do????  I just don't understand the selfishness!!!

I feel like Claudette is a strong person, but she also likes to avoid conflict, because she should have stepped up in that moment and told Chante that since they are in Puerto Rico and already so close to performing, then no changes should be made!  They should just do what they were taught and make it work. Claudette speaking up would have saved a lot of huffs n puffs from the others and also made the ladies feel confident that they had a leader in that moment.  They are all strong willed and very talented women, but when working in group settings there should always be one person who can take leadership.  It's all about security.  See they can all speak out and say things, but it takes one person to speak up and say the right thing!

When the ladies finally made it to dinner at Claudette's family home things almost seemed to be flowing in the right direction.  A few drinks and some tension can make silence seem so loud sometimes though!  The ladies broke out into song and were having a good time, but it was obvious that Chante was secluded, and Claudette and her mother both noticed.  A few shady snickers and smacks of the lips later from Lil Mo and friends Claudette intervened and sang the Lord's prayer which surprisingly enough, eased the tension for a moment.

Whatever the case may be.  Claudette tried to lighten the mood, as she sometimes does, but I think it is safe to say that the Diva's and Chante are not finished with the tension just yet.   I could go on forever but I won't.  If you missed the show I hope this recap helped you catch up a little.  If you agree or disagree with my thoughts let's talk about it!  Drop a comment below.  Just be sure to remember that if you don't hear it anywhere else you know.......

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BRING IT! (Unfinished business!)

So the Dolls vs Dollz rivalry continued last night on Lifetime's hit show 'Bring It'.  The Dancing Dolls leave it all on the floor at the end of the day, but when they didn't get to continue their battle against the Dynamic Diamond Dollz previously, this left them feeling incomplete.  The Dancing Dolls are a pretty much undefeated team of hip hop majorettes.  They also include many other styles of dance with each performance.  

Back to the competition...

So last night several teams showed up to compete in Memphis for a hip hop competition.  The Dolls don't usually do full hip hop performances so this made some of the girls nervous about their capabilities.  Camryn is one of the Dolls top performers, but hip hop is not her thing.  She wears her emotions on her face when she feels uncomfortable about something and it was clear that she did not feel good about the hip hop number.  She eventually sucked it up and did a great performance.

Last time the Dolls got together to battle the Dollz a big fight broke out in the crowd and caused the competition to be stopped in the midst of the Dancing Dolls winning.  They didn't get to continue so they have been waiting to get back on the floor with the Dynamic Diamond Dollz ever since.  They knew that the Dynamic Dollz would come with new material because they were already hip to what the Dancing Dolls were bringing BUT HOW COULD THEY NOT EXPECT THEM TO BRING IT EVEN MORE???

           KAYLA

It was evident that the Dynamic Diamond Dollz prepared for this performance and their coach was confident that they were in Memphis to win.  Dianna and her Dolls are no slackers when it comes to new stands and they came up with an incredible hip hop routine.  Captain Kayla made sure that her team was on point and helped out anyone who needed a little extra attention.  Dianna's girls rocked the house and had the whole crowd in an uproar after their motorcycle stand!!  They knew they had this trophy in the bag.  

When it was time to announce the winner of the night's competition it was no surprise that the Dancing Dolls won for their hip hop routine.  The ultimate shocker was when it came time to present the trophy for the battle round.  Both the Dancing Dolls and the Dynamic Diamond Dollz were announced as winners.  Which meant it was a tie.  This floored the Dolls and their coach Dianna.  They felt cheated, but kept their composure.  The Dynamic Diamond Dolls coach, John Connor also felt that it was not a tie but that his girls should have won.  

JAREBEARSAYS that the competition was fierce.  That cannot be denied.  HOWEVER, the Dancing Dolls clearly won because if they didn't then why would there be a tie.  Anyone watching could see that the Dynamic Diamond Dollz can dance, but they are not as clean as the Dancing Dollz.  The Dancing Dolls are very precise and their creativity level always shines through over the competition.  I mean who would even know that they had girls in there who were scared to dance hip hop or just barely made cuts.  Let's be real!  Maybe it isn't always fun for everyone else to see the same girls sweeping up all of the trophies, but what do you expect when the work is being put in.  When you are the best you are the best.  So a tie in my opinion was the judges cop out.  

Any way...  Before I go I just want to congratulate all of the teams who compete on the show.  You all had a great competition season and I look forward to seeing more of the Dancing Dolls on Lifetime!  If you don't watch the show you should give it a try, and if you didn't hear it anywhere else just know.....

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