Alyson Stoner - Missy Elliott Tribute - @missyelliott @alysonontour - Di...

Alyson Stoner danced her way into our hearts almost 13 years ago in Missy Elliot's "Work It" Video!  Here is Alyson's tribute to Missy and she blazes a path to her continued, amazing career!!!

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The Real Housewives of Atlanta (Cloudy with a chance of SHADE!!!)

On last night's episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta there was no shortage of SHADE...

I am telling you that I laughed my ass off watching these ladies in all of their ratchet glory!!!  There were attempts at reconciliations and even some progress was made...OR AT LEAST THAT'S HOW THINGS FIRST APPEARED.  Before I get into that though let me first say that I was happy to see that my girl Porsha Williams was all up and through this episode because I still don't appreciate them taking away her peach.  It is so obvious that she is more relevant in the story line than a lot of the girls.  ESPECIALLY THESE NEW CHICKS!

Anywho!  What is with this thing they have going on with Demetria.  It just seems like Bravo is showing her
in the worse light.  I mean literally she seems nothing like the star of House of Payne she once was.  She is a beautiful girl, but the make up and styling at that party for her music video premiere was not the business. She looked like somebody was playing with her in the dressing room.  I mean the side boob gets her a *side eye* and that is NO SHADE just Tea! Demetria is very talented.  I mean that girl can sang.  I guess you can say she can act too.  Why is she running around after Roger Bob for 8 years when he is clearly a ladies man and she has already proven her talent.  She needs to move to New York or get back in touch with Tyler Perry because something aint right yall!!!  Is it that hard to see when someone is holding you back???  I haven't been in the room with Demetria or Roger Bob, but it don't take a genius to see that she is a little cuckoo and he might have her under a lil spell called CONTROL ISSUES!!!  Ok JareBear play nice! lol


WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH APOLLO????   If he don't  leave Phaedra alone.  He clearly

doesn't know when someone doesn't want to be bothered, and when she does want to be bothered he wants to be in the streets so it's no wonder she gives him the cold shoulder the way that she does.  Who just pops up in the club and tries to discuss their marriage with their wife in the middle of an event she was invited to with her friends.  He's a goof ball to say the least but Imma quit with the name calling FOR NOW!  Apollo I don't know if 8 years can give you the sense that you need, but like I said before...best of luck to ya buddy!  Phaedra has to do what she feels is best for her and her boys because that is the only option her husband left her with.  I see nothing wrong with how she responded to Apollo, but that's just me.

Nene done suffered from amnesia when she got to Kandi's house!!!!!  I was weak I aint going to lie, but Imma tell you why!  Kenya tried to speak to Nene and went for the hug, but Nene was having none of that and pulled away soooooooooo fast!  I couldn't breathe.  I still can't believe how naive Kenya is to believe that her and Nene were that cool.  Nene was CLEARLY being shady on the last episode when she said that her and Kenya were friends.  There was absolutely no sincerity in her words or actions and a bat could see that in the day time!!!

 Kandi invited all of the women over for some fun with Dr. Rachel Ross and when she tried to bring the girls together with a little bondage game she fell flat by trying to ling Cynthia to NeNe.  I don't really get what the party was really for but I know that the tea was spilled when the group decided to reveal how long they had been with their significant others.  Demetria said that she had been on and off with Roger Bob for 8 years or so but there was an unexpected NOT SO SURPRISING twist when Gocha, one of the party guest, said that she had dated Roger Bob in recent years.  This shocked everyone BUT ME because I saw it coming from somewhere smh.  Demetria fled the scene and was in disbelief.  I will never under stand why but what can you do!

Did i forget to mention Claudia??  Ohhh


Well I hope you all enjoyed my thoughts on your favorite housewives!  Remember to tell a friend...

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K. Michelle My Life (She's Baaaaacccckkkkkk)

Kimberly Pate  aka K. Michelle is back on the TV screen.  This time ON HER OWN SHOW!

Thank you for this VH1.  "K. Michelle My Life" aired last night and for a season premiere it was on point!

 K introduced us to her new life in New York City.  She even introduced us to her son.  It is clear that she is trying a new approach to life and wants to reveal her more pleasant side.  K has expressed how she wants to be a bit different when dealing with the people around her.  Furthermore she wants to change the way she deals with people in the industry.  With that said she also did not fail to remind us of her past with some clips of previous experiences on reality TV.  To me that shows growth, and it is refreshing to see someone who can recognize their issues instead of denying everything all of the time like some other reality stars we know.


K Michelle kicked off her series with her friend Paris and make up artist/friend Jonathan.  Paris and Jonathan were not hard to immediately fall in love with.  They seem to be really good friends to K, and we all know good friends are hard to come by.  Paris is a pretty girl with mad energy.  She seems really fun and very
protective of K.  She also has that East Coast swagger that I live for being an East Coast guy myself! LoL
Jonathan appears to be very down to earth and trustworthy!  Seeing the person who makes my fave look even more gorgeous everyday is pretty cool.  He ain't hard on the eyes either!!!

But ummmmmmm Tracy tho!!!

OK so I am not one to straight bash someone I don't know personally so I wont.  Ok sometimes I will but not this time!  Tracy is K's friend who she fell out with because Tracy was spending K's money without permission.  That would be called a thief.  Tracy claimed that K was there while she used her card, but K says she had no idea and she was obviously pissed off about.  After not speaking to Tracy or accepting her calls, she finally decided that in order to get her dog back from Tracy she would have to deal with the situation at hand.

Jonathan, being the peacemaker decided that to keep K calm he would mediate the situation but when Tracy brought the dog over some hell did break loose!  At first Tracy didn't want to admit her wrongs which pissed K. Michelle all the way off.  K snapped at Tracy when Tracy tried to bring up K's past, which had absolutely nothing to do with their problem.  After some yelling and harsh words Tracy folded under the pressure and exited K's house.  Jonathan ran after her to get her to grow up and face her problem so that she could attempt to mend her friendship with K.  After what appeared to be a sincere apology from Tracy, K was able to calm down and even agreed to allow a homeless Tracy to stay with her.

 K Michelle is proving that she values friendships and that she also demands to be respected!  Who doesn't want those traits??

I am really looking forward to the rest of this season.  Next Monday can't get here fast enough.  Oh yeah and why my girl only get 30 minutes VH1????  WE WANT MORE K!!!!!!!  CTFU  Ok I'm out for now!  TTY guys Later!  Don't forget to tell a friend that...

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Atlanta Exes (Things get better before they get worse!!!)

Atlanta Exes get's better each week.  This weeks episode was very heartfelt if I do say so myself.  Torrei decided to set her differences ALL THE WAY aside and once again help Tomeka with one of her business ventures.  Torrei, who seems to like things organized and planned out became frustrated yet again when she realized Tomeka's lack of planning for her latest event.  For Tomeka to have an assistant, she is sure seeming like she is wasting her money if he is being paid.  But that's another story...





Monyetta Shaw (Neyo's ex) had some concerns about no longer being able to give birth to children since she and her former fiancee agreed they didn't want anymore children together.  The sad thing about her situation is that she and Ne-Yo are no longer together.  Monyetta is heartbroken that she may not be able to conceive a child with a future prince charming.  Monyetta visits her doctor who surprisingly has great news for her.  The Doctor made her aware that he could reverse her procedure and that there was a high chance of it being possible for her to have more children.  In fact he told her the chance was 85%!  I'm sure most people watching felt for Monyetta and were almost as happy as she was to find out the possibilities!  God will work when you don't even realize it!!

Christina has been having some doubts about her decision to break things off with Willie.  I was so happy to see that she had doubts.  I personally think that when a person has chemistry with someone they should give it a try.  Christina has admitted to being attached (for lack of a better word) to her ex husband Cee Lo, but after hearing the news that Cee Lo may be engaged, I think her reality kicked in.  Cee Lo is telling her who she can and cannot see, but he is engaged???? What a jerk!  lol but seriously though, Christina decided that she needs to be open to dating so that she can move on, and why not try it with a guy she connected with!  Willie oozes charm and confidence, and Christina clearly melts when she is around him.  All 6 foot 8 of Willie may be a new look for Christina, and it looks good!!  Cee Lo had the nerve to tell her she was't allowed to date Willie!!! LOL That is because he know his little ass can't do nothing with him! HaHa I'm only kidding, OR AM I?? Let's keep watching to see how this love triangle pans out!


Sheree had some emotional drama going on with her father.  Sheree and her father have been estranged for the last 15 years.  She wasn't even sure if her father was alive or not.  After traveling to Madison, Ga where
she last knew her father to be, Sheree was on board an emotional roller coaster.  She met a first cousin who told her that her father was back living in Kentucky and after reaching out to family members she was able to find her Dad.  Thankfully he was doing better than she had been forewarned and although he suffered some memory loss, he knew exactly who his daughter was.  This mad Sheree very happy and we all watched as she shared a beautiful moment with her father at the senior residence where he is living.


Next week the drama will pock back up, so try to let this weeks episode marinate so that we can remember that there are some positive things about the show that we do like!!  Sometimes I like to carry on, but I think I said it all for now... You may have heard it here and there... but right here you heard the best, and
that's because....

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ATLANTA exes

First there were the HOLLYWOOD exes...

Now VH1 presents you all with ATLANTA exes.  Is anyone excited for this show?? I am more intrigued than anything.  I follow Hollywood exes and it was interesting to hear from the ex wives of superstars and hear about their relationships and how they felt being with a super famous husband. We got a lot of heartfelt stories from the women of Hollywood.  They have all been separated from their men for a number of years and most of them have remained co-parents to their children.   

Well the Atlanta Ladies are all more recently separated from their men so these stories will  probably stir up more emotion and also may cause the men to talk!!! We have here The ex wife of Usher,Tameka Raymond. Ne-Yo's ex fiancée, Monyetta Shaw is cast.  Christina Johnson the ex wife of CeeLo Green.  Kevin Hart's ex wife Torrei Hart joins the cast as well as Sheree Buchanan, Ray Buchanan's ex.  All of the ladies aren't very well known, but when it comes to their men EVERYBODY KNOWS! 

Secrets will be revealed, and I'm sure some lies will be told.  Either way this show seems like it's about to get juicy!!!  What do you guys think???? I guess we will have to tune in to  Atlanta exes premieres August 18, 2014 on VH1!

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This is the life! (Love and Hip Hop recap)

It ain't nothing like hip hop music!

Let me begin by saying that it has become clear to me that Love and Hip Hop is the most ratchet reality show on TV at the moment.   I mean bad girls club don't have anything on this mess.  The sad part of it all is that it's sooooooooooooooooooo obviously scripted that my heart won't allow me to believe the lies!!! lol

You cannot and most certainly will NOT make me believe that Mimi was unaware that this sex tape was going to be put out for the world to see.  I'm not buying her act and I'm not buying that sex tape either.  My coins don't fund pure ridiculousness, but anywho...
Nikko is just so upfront with the mess and the way he speaks to Mimi about their tape is like he has no concerns with what she will go through and that in itself tells me there's no way she didn't know.  He is way too calm and into it, and she still has him around.  Now yall can put that 1+1 together and tell me what you get.

Joseline Hernandez aka The self proclaimed Puerto Rican Princess is so boring this season.  I'm not trying to be rude but she is not talented the way she believes she is and Puerto Rican Princess... Did she not get the J. Lo memo???????????? Lmao ok that was rude and I try to stay positive and supportive, but this show yall! Come on.  Stevie is still the ultimate sleeze ball and Joseline still putting up with that mess.  I mean a lot of us will deal with some things because of love, but Stebbie old enough to be her damn daddy.  You don't sell yaself short for Gramps!!! And if Mimi don't quit giving Joseline so much life by bringing her name up in every scene.  I'm like dang girl you old enough to be her mother, why is she stressing you out like that?? I guess that's what children will do lol.

Benzino Benzino Benzino.  For some odd reason I have a soft spot for the man.  I believe that in his old age he is really trying to make some things right in his life.  The only thing is he keep picking up these chicken heads.  Yall are supposed to be some industry movers and shakers and yall keep trying to wife these birds.  I guess we can't all have our Will and Jada.  DO NOT MARRY ALTHEA she is a gold digger and it is clear she has no respect for you Zino because she can't even keep her composure at a decent event.  She too worried about her fellow birds. All cooty cat ain't good cooty cat! (Joseline v)

It is really nice that Erica, Rasheeda, and Ariane are trying to be supportive of their friend Ms Mimi Faust.  IT IS ALSO CLEAR THAT THESE CHICKS KNOW THAT GIRL IS LYING.  Therefore there is no reason to keep crying with her and letting her talk to yall like yall did something wrong! ijs

I do see the real thing in Waka and Tammi and their family dynamic.  I can appreciate vh1 for showcasing that and not trying to dumb it down, but if Waka and his mother are as smart as I think they are they will part ways with Love and Hip Hop Atl and get their own show.   The ratchet can be entertaining, but T.I. and Tiny showed us what good family values look like on TV and I believe we need more shows like that!  You know to balance things out lol!

Well my great people.  My tea needs a little more lemon so I'm going to go.  Remember to check back as I will be posting more frequently!  If you are reading this you are awesome!!

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All things Housewives! *bloop*

So NeNe Leakes had an EPISODE on this episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta!!! I mean if the sun was out in Florida it would have been a shady day! Miss Kenya Moore had a charity event where she claims to have invited all of the ladies in the cast.  Some of the women RSVP'd but NeNe is being accused by Kenya as not doing so.  NeNe denied ever being invited which sparked a tension to be sliced with a bag of knives!!!! When the event took place all hell broke loose when NeNe decided to show up and show...out??? Kenya introduced NeNe as Belle of the ball, but when Mrs. Belle took to the mic I think Beast took over that fairy tale!  NeNe (in my opinion) was bitter and rude.  Not only was she short but there was nothing sweet about her comments about friends or the charity.  Now everyone loves them some NeNe Leakes and if you say u don't I don't believe you.  BUT I will honestly state that in my opinion Queen NeNe feels that the throne is being threatened and she isn't the most current housewife right now.  Maybe queen mother needs to go on a few auditions before the next event!!! Hollywood is still there they may not be calling,  but get in line with the rest of the folk who grinding for theirs!

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Phaedra Parks at her book signing in Atlanta with the mayor!!! She better not let that woman stop her grind!!!