The Real Housewives of Atlanta (Cloudy with a chance of SHADE!!!)

On last night's episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta there was no shortage of SHADE...

I am telling you that I laughed my ass off watching these ladies in all of their ratchet glory!!!  There were attempts at reconciliations and even some progress was made...OR AT LEAST THAT'S HOW THINGS FIRST APPEARED.  Before I get into that though let me first say that I was happy to see that my girl Porsha Williams was all up and through this episode because I still don't appreciate them taking away her peach.  It is so obvious that she is more relevant in the story line than a lot of the girls.  ESPECIALLY THESE NEW CHICKS!

Anywho!  What is with this thing they have going on with Demetria.  It just seems like Bravo is showing her
in the worse light.  I mean literally she seems nothing like the star of House of Payne she once was.  She is a beautiful girl, but the make up and styling at that party for her music video premiere was not the business. She looked like somebody was playing with her in the dressing room.  I mean the side boob gets her a *side eye* and that is NO SHADE just Tea! Demetria is very talented.  I mean that girl can sang.  I guess you can say she can act too.  Why is she running around after Roger Bob for 8 years when he is clearly a ladies man and she has already proven her talent.  She needs to move to New York or get back in touch with Tyler Perry because something aint right yall!!!  Is it that hard to see when someone is holding you back???  I haven't been in the room with Demetria or Roger Bob, but it don't take a genius to see that she is a little cuckoo and he might have her under a lil spell called CONTROL ISSUES!!!  Ok JareBear play nice! lol


WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH APOLLO????   If he don't  leave Phaedra alone.  He clearly

doesn't know when someone doesn't want to be bothered, and when she does want to be bothered he wants to be in the streets so it's no wonder she gives him the cold shoulder the way that she does.  Who just pops up in the club and tries to discuss their marriage with their wife in the middle of an event she was invited to with her friends.  He's a goof ball to say the least but Imma quit with the name calling FOR NOW!  Apollo I don't know if 8 years can give you the sense that you need, but like I said before...best of luck to ya buddy!  Phaedra has to do what she feels is best for her and her boys because that is the only option her husband left her with.  I see nothing wrong with how she responded to Apollo, but that's just me.

Nene done suffered from amnesia when she got to Kandi's house!!!!!  I was weak I aint going to lie, but Imma tell you why!  Kenya tried to speak to Nene and went for the hug, but Nene was having none of that and pulled away soooooooooo fast!  I couldn't breathe.  I still can't believe how naive Kenya is to believe that her and Nene were that cool.  Nene was CLEARLY being shady on the last episode when she said that her and Kenya were friends.  There was absolutely no sincerity in her words or actions and a bat could see that in the day time!!!

 Kandi invited all of the women over for some fun with Dr. Rachel Ross and when she tried to bring the girls together with a little bondage game she fell flat by trying to ling Cynthia to NeNe.  I don't really get what the party was really for but I know that the tea was spilled when the group decided to reveal how long they had been with their significant others.  Demetria said that she had been on and off with Roger Bob for 8 years or so but there was an unexpected NOT SO SURPRISING twist when Gocha, one of the party guest, said that she had dated Roger Bob in recent years.  This shocked everyone BUT ME because I saw it coming from somewhere smh.  Demetria fled the scene and was in disbelief.  I will never under stand why but what can you do!

Did i forget to mention Claudia??  Ohhh


Well I hope you all enjoyed my thoughts on your favorite housewives!  Remember to tell a friend...

#JareBearSaidIt

Tea Time! ( Long time No sip....)

Sooooo  I just want to take the time out to have tea time with some of the most important people to me!  Grab your cups and cozy up so I can update you on what's been going on with JareBearSays :)


 I haven't really shown the love you all deserved and I hope you can understand why.  My blogs have been scarce LATELY, but that is because I've had some things going on personally but now that things are settling down I will be back to the consistent Jare Bear I have been for almost a year now!!!

YES A YEAR IS APPROACHING SINCE I HAVE BEEN BLOGGING GUYS AND I'M NOT DONE YET!

While I have you guys/gals attention let me first say that I appreciate you more than you probably know!  I am not making money blogging, HOWEVER I AM DOING WHAT I LOVE TO DO... I AM HAVING FUN!  I HONESTLY HOPE YOU ARE AS WELL!

Let's dream big together!  Yall are my team and I will take you all wherever I go!  You guys are mine!  The last month has been busy with me moving from Atlanta back to my home town of Pittsburgh, but I am officially settled in and ready to keep you guys up to date.

My holidays were filled with unpacking, linking up with family and friends, cooking and EATING.  I have been having a good time.  I hope everyone's holiday was the best one yet!  Happy New Year to all of you who get your daily dose from JAREBEARSAYS!!!

I am going to be posting on the blog more frequently so be sure to check the links if you do not have a blogger account you can always click the links from your pc or mobile devices and it will lead you directly to me!!  You can also follow me on Twitter, facebook (JareBearSays24), tumblr, and Instagram although postings will be limited there.  If you want to read my reviews, see music postings and  stay up on what's new with me make sure you are checking out the official blog !

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

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Morning Tea!

It's been a while and although I don't have a big following, I know some of you were wondering why...

LET'S HAVE TEA!


To all of my good people out there I just want to say hello and hope that all is well.  I have spent a little time away from social media because I decided to fast during Lent.  For those of you who don't know I am a Christian and I am a firm believer in Jesus Christ.  Not perfect in any way, I knew that I needed to take time to myself to gather some thoughts and even gain new ideas about my life and the direction I would like to see it go.  I have prayed and I have asked God to continue to bare with me in my life struggles and be with me in my triumphs the same.  I hope that the things that I do in life are being blessings to others in some way or another as I have been blessed so much by God and his people that are in my life.  People constantly praise me for my talents and infinitely have faith in my capabilities where I often doubt myself the most.  I am grateful to have such a loving and caring family/circle of individuals who love the way they do and I am working on ways to reciprocate that same kind of love and care every day of my life.


Now that I have taken some time to myself and worked more on my personal relationship with God, I feel comfortable enough to return to social media and pursue what I feel is my life's journey or my Greater Destiny!  I hope that I can reach people that need to be reached.  I pray that I can touch hearts.  I will be supportive to others and I will believe in myself more.  We live in an imperfect world where we all want to be perfect even if we know we will never be.  I will continue to blog and entertain my good people as long as you will have me.  The support is always appreciated and will never go unnoticed.  Tell a friend to tell a friend what JAREBEARSAYS!! Let's all grow together.



This tea was soothing and calming today yall!  Until next time...  Be blessed and remember to be a blessing :)


                                                                                                        Two Fingaz
                                                                                                                -Jare

Morning tea!

*cheers* To the start of a wonderful week.   Now let's have some tea!

We all love a good peace of gossip right?? If you don't then >>>STOP READING HERE<<<  Okay unless you've been under a rock then you have heard about the recent separation of R&B singer Robin Thicke and wife of 8 years, actress Paula Patton.  Well it's been all over the tabloids, social media, and entertainment news.  The two separated when Paula decided that she wanted out.  Many have said that it is because of Robin's new-found popularity after the success of his hit single blurred lines featuring rapper T.I.. I  don't know if I'm the only one who realizes this, but I'm beginning to think that people only based their opinions on what's going on in the moment.  The reason I say that is because Robin has been popular LONG before blurred lines was released!!  I mean does anyone remember that Lost without you was a hit in 2007?  Any-who...A lot of folk are speculating that Robins fame is going to his head and he has been hanging out late and partying too hard.  Some even go as far as to say that Paula is pissed about the performance at the 2013 VMAs where Robin had a freak show with the likes of Hannah Montana  Miley Cyrus.    

JAREBEARSAYS that a lot of this may have pissed the actress off, but I also feel like there is always a lot more going on behind the scenes that we as an audience have no idea about.  Everyone is quick to say what they think is happening, but no one ever really knows.  WELL ONE THING I DO KNOW is that Robin recently had a show in D.C. and he took to the stage professing his love for his wife and told the crowd "I'm trying to get my girl back."  The crowd seemed supportive, but I'm sure some of the screams were of the lusty women who hope he and his wife never get back together. (shade much?)  As a fan of both talents what Imma say next may be a little on the obvious side, but this is my tea party right? lol  I personally hope that they can work through their problems, get back to happy, and stay married.  I believe in vows and all of that good stuff, but I also believe that nothing worth having comes easy and when you have been married as long as these two have that's not something to throw away.  What a lot of people don't know is the couple have actually been an item since they were 15 years old!!!  Robin should maybe take some time off from his busy tour, and since Paula isn't really that busy...NO SHADE... they can maybe take to a couples retreat or something modern like that.  I wish them nothing but the best.  Those true Hollywood love stories are always ones to be admired.  Hopefully the spark can be reignited.  Until then I will keep following this story and I know you, my good people will as well :)

Well, my cup is running low, but the tea is never all the way gone.  Meet me here next time and I will have a pot ready to pour.  Be sure to invite a friend!

                                                                                                 *Two Fingaz*

                                                                                                          -Jare

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