If you didn't catch last nights season premiere of Love and Hip Hop Hollywood here's what you missed...

Christopher Milan

The cast returns with some new faces and new situations this season.  Milan Christopher is the newest cast member to the Hollywood franchise.  He is an openly gay music producer which is rare in Hollywood and he was not afraid to showcase those details of his life one bit.   Christopher is a music producer and model who has worked with artist such as  Beyonce' and Kanye.  Christopher is seeming to have a struggle with the fact that his boyfriend isn't out of the closet yet.  Miles Brock (Chris Milan's boyfriend) doesn't appear to be ready to come out yet.  He has some concerns which comes in the form of family.  He isn't ready to tell his family because he doesn't know how they will take it. Could there be more to the story than that? WELL THERE IS because Miles someone else is in love with Miles besides Chris and that someone is female rapper Amber Hunter and she isn't aware of Miles sexuality.  I guess we will have to keep watching.  YOU KNOW I WILL!  I will say this though>>>>>  YOU MUST BE PLANNING TO COME OUT VERY SOON BECAUSE ONCE YOU START FILMING A NATIONAL TELEVISION SHOW THERE IS NO MORE CLOSET!!!  People do get that right????????

Moving along...

Apryl

 Apryl and Omarion are both enjoying parenthood with their son Mega.

Omarion

 Now that Apryl has bounced back she is ready to get back out into the scene how she was before she was pregnant.  She is ready to get back to the money, but before she does that she has a plan for getting back to "the nasty" as she calls it!  See Apryl and O haven't been doing to well in the smash department because there little boy is always interrupting.  Apryl talked things over with her girl Nikki and Nikki decided to hook her up with some sexy under garmets to help them get their groove back!  Apryl took very well to this and showed up at O's dance rehearsals very sexy and demanded her mans time so that they could get "nasty."  LAWD I HOPE NOBODIES KIDS ARE READING THIS.

ANYWHO...

Ray J is still being his simple self.  He has his girlfriend Princess Love concerned about his fidelity as usual.  The two have went through some rough times outside of filming the show.  An argument between them landed Princess Love in jail and she seems to have some resentment toward Ray for that.  When all seems forgiven Princess Love meets with Ray J and before deciding to give him another chance she throws an ultimatum on the table.  Princess Love wants Ray J to get rid of his apartment on the side because she doesn't feel a man in a relationship should have an extra apartment. WAIT I JUS HAD A FLASH BACK TO ANOTHER LOVE & HIP HOP FRANCHISE.... DIDN'T THIS HAPPEN IN A............ Never mind I'm back! LOL   So anyway Ray J obliges but in normal Ray J idiotic fashion he throws a bon voyage party for the damn apartment and hires a bunch of strippers to come and dance for he and his guests.   Princess Love catches the tea and barges in on the party.  Ray J looks foolish and PL is disrespected by one of the dancers which sends her into a rage. She goes into full attack mode, but before she could totally wreck shop security steps in!!!

It was surprising to see Princess Love reach out to Tiearra Mari and for Tiearra to be open to giving her advice on the situation between PL and Ray.  All seems to be good between the two after their conversation BUT I know I am not the only person who saw that shady ass face Tiearra made after the two women hugged each other.  The previews didn't even have to tell me that there is shade to come!!!


The ultimate gagger was when Moniece announced that she is dating someone new and that someone is Love and Hip Hopper Richie Dollaz!!!!!!!!!  I HIT THE FLOOR!!!  I couldn't even swallow that tea it was son funny.

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Love & Hip Hop New York (Is there really love in hip hop????)

On last night's episode of Love & Hip Hop New York we got to witness the drama of Cyn and Erica Mena to the extreme, but before I get all the way to it...


Peter Gunz was out to lunch with his sons mother Tara.  They were enjoying some family time and it almost seemed innocent and quite normal even, that is until Peter became very flirtatious with Tara.  Tara seems to be used to Peter's antics at this point however she doesn't do a good job at brushing it off.  It is almost like Peter throws out the line and she immediately takes the bait.  You can tell that she is not over him and when he offered for she and him to go on an island vacation together with their kids, she stupidly obliged!  I am saying that it was stupid for her to agree to such nonsense because the man is married!!  Why bring the unnecessary drama into your life?????  OH YEAH BECAUSE SHE STILL WANTS THE MAN WHO LEFT HER HIGH AND DRY AND MARRIED HIS "ARTIST" AMINA BUDDAFLY.  Tara looks smarter than that, but I don't know if she actually is.

It's no shade to Amina because the man did marry her and she is also carrying his child so she is obviously very relevant in the situation.  Her reality is being checked left and right though, because she is getting the "marriage don't change nothing" blues oh yeah and the "baby won't make him stay" sorrows.  Not saying she deserves any of it, but the signs and red flags were all in her face before she said I do and got knocked up.  When Amina spotted Peter's car she approached him at his lunch with Tara and the kids.  She was very upset because they had plans that same day and he was else where.  Before things could get ugly Peter pulled Amina away from the table and spoke to her privately which made her upset and she sat on the ground crying.  It was surprising to see Tara come and talk to Amina woman to woman.  They had a calm conversation and Tara helped Amina to her car.  I guess the situation is still a bit much for both women, but they seem to be handling it a little better than last season.

DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA unfolded when Erica's bff decided to tell her that he saw Cyn riding around in her car shot gun while another man was driving.  This pissed Erica off and the next time the two met up it was chaos.  Cyn is still accusing Erica of not being faithful and the first time Cyn mentioned it again Erica pulled out the info she recently received and hit Cyn with it.  Cyn was enraged that she was being accused of something after all the BS Erica put her through.  Spit was flying, tables were banged and veins were popping out everywhere!!!! Erica even light weight slapped Cyn in her face.  Cyn was appauled and

Erica yelled "you're dead to me."  JAREBEARSAYS this was clearly a cop out for Erica.  She was already looking for a way out and she found one and used it to her full advantage which shows shes whack for real! Cyn forgave her more than once for different things she has done, yet Cyn is accused of one thing and it is over!!! I CAN'T, I DON'T  and I WON'T deal with this foolery!!!  LOL the mess has gone far enough. Cyn, girrrrlllllll u are better off.  Erica has the most skeleton's in her closet.  We are gonna pray for her mmkay!


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K. Michelle My Life (She's Baaaaacccckkkkkk)

Kimberly Pate  aka K. Michelle is back on the TV screen.  This time ON HER OWN SHOW!

Thank you for this VH1.  "K. Michelle My Life" aired last night and for a season premiere it was on point!

 K introduced us to her new life in New York City.  She even introduced us to her son.  It is clear that she is trying a new approach to life and wants to reveal her more pleasant side.  K has expressed how she wants to be a bit different when dealing with the people around her.  Furthermore she wants to change the way she deals with people in the industry.  With that said she also did not fail to remind us of her past with some clips of previous experiences on reality TV.  To me that shows growth, and it is refreshing to see someone who can recognize their issues instead of denying everything all of the time like some other reality stars we know.


K Michelle kicked off her series with her friend Paris and make up artist/friend Jonathan.  Paris and Jonathan were not hard to immediately fall in love with.  They seem to be really good friends to K, and we all know good friends are hard to come by.  Paris is a pretty girl with mad energy.  She seems really fun and very
protective of K.  She also has that East Coast swagger that I live for being an East Coast guy myself! LoL
Jonathan appears to be very down to earth and trustworthy!  Seeing the person who makes my fave look even more gorgeous everyday is pretty cool.  He ain't hard on the eyes either!!!

But ummmmmmm Tracy tho!!!

OK so I am not one to straight bash someone I don't know personally so I wont.  Ok sometimes I will but not this time!  Tracy is K's friend who she fell out with because Tracy was spending K's money without permission.  That would be called a thief.  Tracy claimed that K was there while she used her card, but K says she had no idea and she was obviously pissed off about.  After not speaking to Tracy or accepting her calls, she finally decided that in order to get her dog back from Tracy she would have to deal with the situation at hand.

Jonathan, being the peacemaker decided that to keep K calm he would mediate the situation but when Tracy brought the dog over some hell did break loose!  At first Tracy didn't want to admit her wrongs which pissed K. Michelle all the way off.  K snapped at Tracy when Tracy tried to bring up K's past, which had absolutely nothing to do with their problem.  After some yelling and harsh words Tracy folded under the pressure and exited K's house.  Jonathan ran after her to get her to grow up and face her problem so that she could attempt to mend her friendship with K.  After what appeared to be a sincere apology from Tracy, K was able to calm down and even agreed to allow a homeless Tracy to stay with her.

 K Michelle is proving that she values friendships and that she also demands to be respected!  Who doesn't want those traits??

I am really looking forward to the rest of this season.  Next Monday can't get here fast enough.  Oh yeah and why my girl only get 30 minutes VH1????  WE WANT MORE K!!!!!!!  CTFU  Ok I'm out for now!  TTY guys Later!  Don't forget to tell a friend that...

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Tiny & Shekinah's Weave Trip (Bourbon Street Takeover!!!!)

Tiny and Shekinah have been on a hilarious journey during their Weave Trip.  The ladies have been up to their usual friendly fighting, but have been having an adventure none the less!

Shekinah & Tiny

They have decked out an amazing bus and transformed it into a mobile hair salon.  On last nights episode the duo stopped in Louisiana.  Their main goal was to throw a Mardis Gras party on the historically famous Bourbon Street.  While out dining on some of New Orleans famous beignets, Tiny and Shekinah were recognized by a fun group of girls who were part of a bridal party.  They were happy to meet the girls and even invited the ladies to come and party with them the next day.  What was more exciting for Tiny and Shekinah was the fact that Shekinah had her first opportunity to do some hair on the bus.  Although the women weren't Shekinah's usual clientele,  she was able to style the ladies hair and the clients were very pleased with the outcome.

So far so good Tiny and Shekinah.  This show is giving us more of what we love about these fun loving Divas!!!  Their personalities shine through in an amazing way.  Unlike a lot of other reality stars,  these two best friends are not afraid to be themselves.  They stay true to who they are and find a way not to let the shade of the industry turn them into "fake friends" or even turn them against each other.  There is definitely ratchetness all up in through the show #NoShade  but it is the ratchet that we love!!

JareBearSays that at the end of the day Tiny and Shekinah are proving that the are fabulous business women.  They  are clearly able to work together despite the bumps in the road! #NoPun  I am really enjoying this show.  I laugh more than a little bit every episode.  I'm still hoping to meet my girl Shekinah one day soon, but until then I will continue to follow what I believe is an amazing journey!!

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Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (There is some love in Hip Hop!)

I'mma dive right in!!!

WHEN will certain women learn.  Berg could not be making it anymore clear that he wants no relationship with Hazel E.  He doesn't want a relationship with anyone for that matter!!  She didn't see that he had to get drunk to even sleep with her. THIS IS SOME SAD ish!  Then the chick had to to wake up to him being in the next room instead of boo loving with her.  Well it gets to the point where you stop being mad at the guy and start being mad at the girl.  LEAVE HIS ASS ALONE!!!  If you looking for love and to be held down then you need to look somewhere else Hazel E dang!  I'm fed up with that nonsense.  How in the world do you sit on camera crying about a dude who has told you time and time again he isn't settling down.  There is weak and there is dumb.  I'm not name calling I'm just saying what's out there.  You guys can determine what to do with the words.  ;)  

Omarion's momma got to come better.   How do you show up to a young woman's baby shower and totally disrespect her.  Why couldn't Momma O (that's what Imma call her) just stay at home if she was't feeling it.  Apryl seems very strong, but why should she have to stress when she is however many months pregnant and at her own damn shower???  That just floors me that people are so inconsiderate.  It's your son's child in there Momma O!!!  Get it together. Apryl is better than most people I know because "I love you babe, but your mom has to vacate the premises.  She is team WAY too much.  A person who is ill and acts like that makes it hard for you to even feel bad about them being sick.  Yall can correct me if yall think I'm wrong, but my compassion would go out of the window when the disrespect started!  

Fizz & his girl seem to be doing pretty well.  Fizz is stepping up and seems to be really relationship oriented.  It is not hard to understand why his girl would be a little hesitant about becoming a family with another womans child.  It is a huge responsibility and she should be allowed some time to decide.  I will say this though.  Fizz you have let the world know that she has been unfaithful to you once so now we are looking at her with different  eyes than we were last week.  She may be worried about the baby momma drama, but if he is wearing his heart on his sleeve as it appears then he needs to be careful and make sure he is protecting himself and his son.  

Morgan Morgan Morgan!!!  The typical reality show trouble maker.  She is the passive aggressor and two faced chick.  I guess I can't be too mad at her since she knows her role and plays the part.  If she wasn't starting mess pretending to cover it in "bringing the girls together"  she would have no relevance on the show.  Most shows need their Morgan, as annoying as she may be!

The little love triangle between Mally and the two chicks we don't know is just pathetic.  The main reason is because this dude is not even hot!  I mean not to be fighting over especially.  I don't even know what else to say about that situation because both ladies got played and until they realize that & stop pointing the finger at each other, they won't have a clue!  Sad I know...

IF THAT GIRL MOVES IN WITH SOULJAH BOY #nuffsaid

Same time next week!  

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Love & Hip Hop & R 'n' B

THIS SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII IS RATCHET

YES I SAID IT...BUT DID I EVEN HAVE TO?????  If you follow me on twitter then you know I was going innnnnnnnnnnnnnn last night!! lol Thanks for all of the favorites and retweets!  I was just saying how I felt!!

If Ray J is responsible for this Hollywood madness then I am not surprised at all.  He is a CORN BALL.com and needs to be addressed as such.  Honestly he has sold out his "homies" by exploiting them on this show.  Even if editing is to blame, when does a person put down their fut to say "no you can not air this mess?"  Besides that why was Ray being such a lil BISSSSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH to his assistant??  Not to mention him showing up to drop that box of junk of to Teairra!!!  

Speaking of Teairra, which seems to be happening a lot these days!  Is it safe to say that she has found her role as the crazy chick from Love & Hip Hop?  Will her music career officially fade to black???  I would love to ask Teairra some questions so if you are reading this T GET AT ME!!!!

Teairra's drama is being dragged out unnecessarily.  Why do they want to focus on her arguing and fighting with a friend of hers when they KNOW this girl is a talented artist.  She has already proven her self and will now have to keep defending her "craziness" because that is all VH1 will probably show!  Sad I know.  

I have repeatedly said that I don't believe that Omarion and Fizz should have been a part of this show.  They probably would have been better off doing their own thing!  "Love & R'n'B"  #JAREBEARSAIDIT  lol  At least it can be said that their situations seem authentic and they are looking good on camera because they are not putting on for the cameras.  Their stories are real and the are staying true to themselves.  I mean you can't write that shiiiii that Fizz's baby momma is pulling.  That chick is wacked out smh...

Souljah Boy is pitiful.  He shouldn't even have air time.  He does not want to grow up, and while I pray for him, I don't see him growing up any time soon.  Some people just don't have good morals and he seems like one of those people.  I don't know what Nia sees, but guuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllllllllllll you need to RUN!  While you are young and have no kids by this dude you need to get far away!!

I used to be a Yung Berg fan, back when he was a rapper.  This guy on tv is not cool.  I mean everyone isn't  going to be an awesome person, but this dude has no respect for women.  He owns it though that's for sure.  He get's real ridiculous on social media with some of the things he says.  Sadly enough he has thousands of followers agreeing with his ways and egging him on.  LADIES if you love yourself DON'T DATE HIM!!!!!

The mess continues to unfold...

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Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (Melodramaaaaaaaaaaaaaa)

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood is  two episodes in after last nights show.  Were you watching??  I have to be honest.  I feel like this show is a little weak.  The drama is unfolding, but at what cost??

It seems like friendships are being broken just for camera time and drama!  I mean Ray J's assistant is clearly playing both sides when it comes to her friendship with he and Teairra.  She talked mad mess behind Teairra's back on the first episode.  Then she turns around and calls herself defending her during T's spas out at the RayJ.com party, but turns right around talks mess on her again in the midst of the commotion.   Wait a minute tho...  THEN SHE IS GOIN TO BE BACK TO DEFENDING HER AGAIN WHEN SHE MEETS WITH RAY NEXT EPISODE!!!   Oooool I wish I had emojis on this laptop!!!!  These chicks clearly never were friends.  I think Teairra should see that the assistant chick was only on her team while she was on Ray J's team.  The two girls may have thought they were friends, but they NEVER were and they should just leave it at that.  (Only observations not facts!)


Now for the melodrama.  IF TEAIRRA DOES NOT STOP WITH HER RAH RAH ANTICS!!!  I just feel like if you are tough you don't have to prove it all of the time.  If you are an ass kicker it will show when you kick some ass.  People will begin to recognize that you kick ass and some may fall back and some may kick your ass back! lol I'm just saying.  It seems like in every scene Teairra has to basically make it known "that she ain't the one."  This makes her appear to be somewhat insecure, and somewhat of a bully.

 From the outside looking in however, I see that Teairra may have some serious trust issues, and from the looks of things she may have every right.  It seems like she has been played on all angles from friendships to relationships.  This is what probably makes her lash out.  Now I'm no Psychologist but I can understand when a person feels like they have to be on attack mode because of distrust.  The smart thing would be to remove yourself from the situation rather than lose yourself in it.  JAREBEARSAYS  Teairra's talent cannot be denied, but this show can either hurt or help her career.  It's not looking good tho T.  Leave the heartbreak in the past and move forward boo.  If you are going to use Love & Hip Hop to rebuild your career and fan base, then give these women and girls out here something positive to look to.  We all love a little drama.  That is why we watch, but we also love to see people prosper so get to work!

Fizz is having baby mama drama.  I don't even think it is cool.  I say this because his bm is coo coo!!!  She cannot be concerned about her son.  She is causing unecessary drama all in the name of her son.  She is coming between Fizz's two year relationship.  It is sad to say, but the girl is a mess.  She is not over Fizz and anyone watching knows it.  She still hasn't asked to see her son in all of this, but shes having meetings with the girlfriend.  IS THIS CHICK SERIOUS???  Actions speak LOUD!  How are you calling this girl to a restaurant to sit across from her and call her names.  It was so ratchet.  She doesn't even know Fizz's girl but the girl is raising her child.  Why can't she thank her for being there when she isn't able to be.  For making sure her son gets home from school safely.  I don't get it.  Why make problems where there should be none?  This chick is looney.  That's all there is to that.


Yung Berg is a talented producer... #Thatsall


Souljah Boy...Uggghhhhh I don't even like to say that name.  It's no shade...ok yes it is!  That dude gross's me out.  Anyway...Why is Nia surprised about the info she received about he and Karrine??  You have been dating this dude on and off for 8 years and everything he has done in those years have been the focus of hip hop media.  I mean it's not wrong to feel hopeful that some one can change or be better, but COME ONNNNNNNNN this clown is not that person.  Not at this point in his life anyway.  He was so quick to find the dumbest reason to dismiss her at the studio when she came to talk to him.  It was not hard to see that he knew he was wrong, and chose not to deal with it by making her feel bad about it.    I hate to be negative, but some of these people just take you there!!




All of the artist on the show should rethink their purpose before they continue to down grade themselves.  Reality tv is a fad and can be gone tomorrow like the last big thing.  Will these stars be around after reality tv or will they fade to black... I guess we'll have to wait to see.  I'm not going to go on because there will be more to discuss next week.  So if you didn't get it anywhere else at least you know....

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Atlanta Exes (Things get better before they get worse!!!)

Atlanta Exes get's better each week.  This weeks episode was very heartfelt if I do say so myself.  Torrei decided to set her differences ALL THE WAY aside and once again help Tomeka with one of her business ventures.  Torrei, who seems to like things organized and planned out became frustrated yet again when she realized Tomeka's lack of planning for her latest event.  For Tomeka to have an assistant, she is sure seeming like she is wasting her money if he is being paid.  But that's another story...





Monyetta Shaw (Neyo's ex) had some concerns about no longer being able to give birth to children since she and her former fiancee agreed they didn't want anymore children together.  The sad thing about her situation is that she and Ne-Yo are no longer together.  Monyetta is heartbroken that she may not be able to conceive a child with a future prince charming.  Monyetta visits her doctor who surprisingly has great news for her.  The Doctor made her aware that he could reverse her procedure and that there was a high chance of it being possible for her to have more children.  In fact he told her the chance was 85%!  I'm sure most people watching felt for Monyetta and were almost as happy as she was to find out the possibilities!  God will work when you don't even realize it!!

Christina has been having some doubts about her decision to break things off with Willie.  I was so happy to see that she had doubts.  I personally think that when a person has chemistry with someone they should give it a try.  Christina has admitted to being attached (for lack of a better word) to her ex husband Cee Lo, but after hearing the news that Cee Lo may be engaged, I think her reality kicked in.  Cee Lo is telling her who she can and cannot see, but he is engaged???? What a jerk!  lol but seriously though, Christina decided that she needs to be open to dating so that she can move on, and why not try it with a guy she connected with!  Willie oozes charm and confidence, and Christina clearly melts when she is around him.  All 6 foot 8 of Willie may be a new look for Christina, and it looks good!!  Cee Lo had the nerve to tell her she was't allowed to date Willie!!! LOL That is because he know his little ass can't do nothing with him! HaHa I'm only kidding, OR AM I?? Let's keep watching to see how this love triangle pans out!


Sheree had some emotional drama going on with her father.  Sheree and her father have been estranged for the last 15 years.  She wasn't even sure if her father was alive or not.  After traveling to Madison, Ga where
she last knew her father to be, Sheree was on board an emotional roller coaster.  She met a first cousin who told her that her father was back living in Kentucky and after reaching out to family members she was able to find her Dad.  Thankfully he was doing better than she had been forewarned and although he suffered some memory loss, he knew exactly who his daughter was.  This mad Sheree very happy and we all watched as she shared a beautiful moment with her father at the senior residence where he is living.


Next week the drama will pock back up, so try to let this weeks episode marinate so that we can remember that there are some positive things about the show that we do like!!  Sometimes I like to carry on, but I think I said it all for now... You may have heard it here and there... but right here you heard the best, and
that's because....

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Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (New City, Same Game!)

Bye Bye Atlanta...

The series premiere of Love and Hip Hop took place last night  on vh1.  The newest addition to the franchise just happens to be in the city where dreams come to life.  Yeah that's right Hollywood, California.  With all that goes on in these television shows, you would think that the fact that they are filming this new series in Hollywood would give people a chance to actually see these artist hard at work on their careers.  WELL OF COURSE THAT IS NOT THE CASE!  Mona Scott is clearly not interested in shedding too much positive light on the participants of these shows and it is evident that these artist are just looking to maintain fame rather than actually rebuilding their careers.  TV IS ALL ABOUT RATINGS.  Most of them are lacking in the career department, which is why they even get involved with these shows.
                    @RayJ

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood stars Ray J who most of you know is an R&B singer/actor.  He formerly dated singer Teairra Marie, who is also a cast member.  She and Ray J are no longer in a relationship.  In fact Ray J actually has a new girlfriend who is also a part of the show.  I GUESS Teairra GOT THE MEMO A LITTLE TOO LATE because she acted out all up and through this episode.  Teairra is highly pissed off that Ray J has moved on.  She had it in her head that there was still a chance for her and Ray, but Ray shut that down.  In normal idiotic fashion Ray decides to invite Teairra to an event he had where his girlfriend would be as well.  His assistant Morgan warned Ray that it was a bad idea, but who does Ray J listen to??? So Teairra shows up, gets taunted by Ray's girlfriend, Princess Love, and Teairra get's in full attack mode!!!  Drinks flew and blows were thrown before security had to immediately stop things from going any further.

              @MissTMari

Teairra is a beautiful girl, but something aint right with her.  It could just be the Detroit in her, but she seems broken.  She has a very hard exterior for such a pretty girl and her anger is written all over her face.  I am no Dr, Phil and TRUST I have issues of my own that need to be worked on, but They put it on tv for us so Imma talk about it.  Teairra can really sing so why isn't she putting out music???  Well she admitted that she was dropped from her label, but looking at how she is acting so far on this show.  She may be scaring people like my FAVE used to do! lol Yall know who I'm talking about.  Teairra if you ever see this blog I just want you to know that we all got a lil crazy in us so I'm not judging you boo.  I just want to hear the music so please get back to it!  THANKS :)               @1OMARION

Omarion is on the show with his girlfriend, Apryl Jones, who is now his babies mother as well.  Now we all know Love & Hip Hop can't exist without some body letting their crazy mother get involved.  In the history of Love & Hip Hop you know that it takes a ratchet mother to stand behind a talented son and get all up in the middle of his ADULT LIFE!  Omarion's mother has made it clear what her role will be in the show right away.  WE SEE U MOMMA, but do we have to??????????????  IJS Anyway Omarion and his girlfriend seem to be happy together and since the shows taping they have welcomed their child into the world.  Omarion is pretty established in the music industry.  He is currently signed to Maybach Music Group where he will be releasing his upcoming album.  O seemed to get a lot of negative comments from people on twitter last night.  But like a man with good sense he brushed the haters off and retweeted plenty of positive tweets from his fans.  When you are talented and aware of what you have offered throughout your career the haters can't be anything but motivators.  Omarion needs to just stay focused and keep up the great work.  We see you!

Souljah Boy...
I'm not gonna go there.  I'd rather just watch the hot mess unfold.  I will say this though... Teddy Riley we are praying for you and your daughter.  She seems like a very nice girl who may want to consider a new boyfriend.  It's no shade but my daughter WOULD NOTTTTTTTTTT even be able to think about dating that guy!

             @AirFizzo

Fizz formerly of B2K has made his way back into the limelight.  He is definitely having some baby momma drama, which is sad because he appears to be responsible for his son.  I am most interested in his story line because a lot of black fathers do not get portrayed well on television.  It would be great to see a man step up to the plate while still trying to work hard and provide.  Idk what Fizz has been doing since B2K but he still has his looks and obviously still has his connections so we will just bid him good luck.  Hopefully this show will bring good things to him.  His baby mother on the other hand seems a little janky!!  YEAH I SAID IT!!! She a lil gold digger who doesn't seem too concerned about her son.  She is clearly more pissed off that she isn't with Fizz.  What the hell is up with these chicks still thinking that in 2014 having a baby will keep you and your man together?????  #NORELATIONSHIPGOALS


Were you sucked in by this new show?? Will you all be watching each week??  Let me know, and let me know your thoughts and opinions on this cast.  We can have discussion if you just comment below!!  Before I get out of her I will leave u with a little reminder.  If you didn't get the story anywhere else you know....

#JareBearSaidIt

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Love & Hip Hop Reunion Pt. 3 (Until Next year......)

@WhoisAriane

 

Ariane... This woman has seemed to  be nothing but an amazing friend thus far!  Ariane shows that her love for her girl Mimi is without hesitation or problem.  With all that Mimi has been through with her current boyfriend and previous lover, Stevie J, Ariane has shown and proved her loyalty and that truth cannot be denied!  Anyone watching may agree with me when I say that Ariane is the epitome of a friend.  Not only does she quickly dismiss bullsh**, she also decides when it is the right time or NOT to accept the bs.  Ariane is clearly not convinced that Nikko and Mimi are in an honest relationship.   She and Nikko has been in total disagreement since Ariane first became aware that the sex tape had been released!  Maybe even before that.

Nikko has been offered a chance to complete a lie detector test, which as far as the shows fans are concerned, would make the reality show opportunist omissions legit.  Nikko has declined to undergo the lie detector test.  Most people may be aware, but not 100 percent content with Nikko's response.  Nikkos is standing his ground which may possibly be allowing some viewers to believe that he is telling the truth about what he has done.  Nikko has also made it very clear that he was trying to come up off of the sex tape.  If you are unaware, Nikko is the boyfriend of Love and Hip Hop star Mimi Faust. She will not admit to any further relation's with Stevie.  Mimi has also made it very clear that she is a single mother to her daughter, and solely responsible for her well being!



BUT WITH ALL OF THAT SAID...............

Deb has been expressing her concerns throughout the entire reunion!  She seems to have love for all of the cast members in a loving and motherly way.  She has no problem speaking on how she feels about certain situations and always comes off as honest and real.  Deb along with the rest of the cast admits that they believe Nikko leaked the tape of he and Mimi.  She also questioned Nikko about why he did not tell Mimi he was married.  This is a question that I am sure most people on the outside looking in wants an answer to.  Deb pretty much commends Mimi for owning up to her part in all situations and does not understand why Nikko cannot do the same.  It seems as if Deb is saying that is why Nikko cannot be respected or taken seriously.  I couldn't agree with Deb more. It's like the more Nikko denies his wrongs, the further he digs himself into a hole.  The longer he waits to come clean, the further he pushes himself out of the hearts and minds of others.  Mimi may continue to love him and put up with his shenanigans, but the others don't have to and she may put herself in even an even more awkward situation with her friends.   

 @DebraAntney

Benzino and Stevie J have made it pretty clear that there is no coming back from where they are.  Their friendship is over.  Too many lines were crossed and so the brotherhood is no more!  It's kind of said when you really think about it because their bond appeared to be tight.  I mean we have saw them go at it before as brothers do.  The only difference between then and now is that things got physical between them and their women.  Some scars will definitely be left behind with season 3!  

There is still a lot of speculation of whether or not Stevie and Joseline are still together since the taping.  Rumors have been circulating that the two are now over, but you never know until you know.  Benzino and Althea are posting pictures on social media daily so we know they are going strong.  The love between those two seems real.  I have to be honest though.  I wasn't buying it at first.  I mean I was really thinking the whole marriage and relationship thing with them was all for the cameras and a story line.  It's good to see that isn't the case.

All in all Season 3 of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta has been the train wreck we all seem to be hooked on.  So until next year... If you don't hear it anywhere else just know....

#JareBearSaidIt

The Family Hustle (Newports #OrNaw)

@troubleman31

Tip T.I. Harris has continually restored his reputation as a wholesome family man DESPITE his past actions and even some more recent situations which may cause some to doubt his influence.  We all know that T.I. has a past that may be represented as negative due to his street persona.  Anyone who knows hip hop music and it's development knows that most people in hip hop started their lives in the urban streets.  T.I. however, has managed to turn over some new leaves to be a present father to his children and loving husband to his wife.  I have previously blogged about the Harris family and their show, but never said much a bout the leading man.  So I decided to open with him today.


T.I.  took his young sons to the area where he grew up.  He is always trying to keep his children grounded by letting them know that they are blessed because of his hard work and struggle.  He doesn't want them to think that they are rich.  He instead wants them to understand that he is rich and all of the work that went into making that possible.  T.I. doesn't always like his children to be so consumed with electronics and technological gadgets.  So this trip to the hood was to teach them some of the things he and his friends used to do out side for fun.  They played games in the streets and even in front of the house.  There wasn't always a video game to play and/or computers and things of that nature.  For most black kids in the hood nature was the only option.  Everyone's parents could not always afford to buy the latest and greatest toys and games so children had to make a way out of no way.  Shout out to Tip for bringing positive vibes to reality television!  Thank you for inviting us into your home every week!!

@thatshekinah

This weeks epsisode of Family Hustle once again revolves around Shekinah Jo and Tiny Harris.  Shekinah  can't seem to kick her smoking habit which she admittedly wishes she didn't have.  Shekinah told Tiny that at 30 years old she has been smoking since she was a teenager, and has tried more than once to quit.  Tiny is not only concerned with her friends smoking, but she is also worried about her own health because she is on the receiving end of second hand smoke.  She also fears that Shekinah pack or more a day habit can be very harmful.

Tiny decides to take Shekinah to a hypnotist.  Shekinah agrees and the two go to a group session together with several other participants.  In their common fashion the ladies arrive late, and Shekinah is chatty Cathy the entire time.  Tiny goes under hypnosis first and this clearly freaks Shekinah out.  As tiny responds to the commands of the hypnotist Shekinah appears to be shocked and not amused.  It seems that she is uncomfortable seeing her friend under this kind of control, and so she proceeds to try to snap her out of it.  Shekinah hilariously attempts to wake Tiny and when she comes to she says that she was really under the hypnosis spell.  Shekinah finally goes under and the hypnotist tells her that when she comes to she will despise cigarettes.  Shekinah awakes, lights up, and suprisingly to me she is disgusted by the taste of the Newport!!!!


I CALL BULL SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII lol I don't believe Tiny or Shekinah were reall hypnotized.  I say this because I have been to a hypnotist with some high school friends, and as convincing as it was while we were there, they all admitted that they were faking it.  Now I'm not saying I don't believe hypnotism is real, I just don't think certain people have the kind of focused to be put under.  I applaud Tiny for commiting the way she did.  She was just trying to be there for her friend.  I also applaud Shekinah for being ever so entertaining.  She knows how to make good tv!!  I wish Shekinah good luck on her quest to quit smoking.  It is not an easy task, and I know that from experience!  Well it's time for me to go my good people, but before I do I want you all to remember.  If you didn't hear it anywhere else just know........

#JareBearSaidIt

The Family Hustle

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Love & Hip Hop Reunion Pt. 2 ( Can you say RAMPAGE!?!?!?!)

Stevie J & Joseline Hernandez

It is clear that everyone in the cast believes that Stevie J and Joseline were acting very strange while they were taping the reunion.  I don't think anyone was prepared for the rampage these two went on at all!  A few members have said that they could tell the two were there for trouble, while others accused them of being high on some type of drugs.

Benzino & Althea

Benzino did not bite his tongue when accusing Stebbie and Joseline of using cocaine, which provoked the wild brawl that ensued.  Joseline attacked Althea, and as Benzino tried to get at Joseline Stevie attacked him as well.  There was soooooo much security on the set, but whatever Stevie and Joseline were on CLEARLY gave them super powers because they were not easy to tame!!! After the fight appeared to be calmed down some of the cast members returned to set to prepare to continue taping.  Some how some way though the "Puerda Rican Pwincess" >>>>>NO SPELL CHECK<<<<< got loose and attacked Tammy while she was
in the middle of a conversation with Momma Dee.  Tammy tried her best to fight back in that shocking moment, but there were too many people who intervened.  SURPRISINGLY  to me Kirk made sure his wife was safe, and stuck around to make sure Tammy was safe and unharmed as well.  He would not leave the set until he was sure Tammy was safe, which says a lot for him since he was often portrayed as a jerk. Needless to say Waka should be appreciative being as though he wasn't able to be there to defend his wife.

Momma Dee blew me away with how calm she was through everything, and she actually had a lot of things to say that made sense.  Her highness seemed to be a regular person after seeing all of the REAL craziness break out! lmao  It was nice to see her snap back into reality for a few minutes.  I'm sure a lot of you can appreciate that...

After the final attack from Joseline on Mimi, Joseline and Stevie were escorted from the building.  Benzino and Althea opted to leave on their own.  They did not continue filming that day.

Everyone agrees that Stevie and Joseline are in a toxic relationship that is damaging both of their reputations more than it is building them.  Both are seemingly living in a dream world where they are King and Queen and everyone around them are beneath.  JAREBEARSAYS that they should call it quits and move on from each other while people still care who they are.  Joseline is much more lovable when she is in good spirits and being a good friend.  Stevie on the other hand has more respect when he is making legitimate business decisions and not lying and scheming to have a story line!  THESE ARE ONLY MY OPINIONS

Part 3 of the Love and Hip Hop Reunion special airs next Monday same time same place!  Will you be watching??  Feel free to leave a comment below.  We can chat!! Thanks for hanging out with me today. Remember if you don't hear it anywhere else...

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Atlanta Exes (Could there be peace???)

If you have been following VH1's latest ratchet reality tv show like I have then you are very aware that I am referring to Atlanta Exes.  This show is following the lives and "friendships" of five celebrity Exes which include Tameka Foster, Torrei Hart, Sheree Buchanan, Christina Johnson, and Monyetta Shaw.  All of these women were once married to major celebrities, and if you are watching LIKE I AM then you know exactly who.  Before I refresh your memories let's get into this.


Last night's episode began where last weeks episode left off.  Torrei and Tameka got into a huge argument last week where both ladies said some nasty things to one another!!  It almost seemed as if they were worst enemies.  Tameka came for Torrei's skin flaws and Torrei came for Tameka's parenting skills and even told her to "kill yourself" and to "lay in a coffin."  Now most people watching probably thought not much of the comments because everyone know's that 'kill yourself' has unfortunately just become a figure of speech in today's society.  It is sad but true.  When that phrase is thrown around it is most likely not meant in the literal sense.


ANYWHO... Christina and the other ladies were able to convince the two, along with them all, to come together for mediation from a third party.  They decided to retreat and spend a weekend together where they had lessons from a life coach.  With all of the drama, hate, and accusations going around I have to say that it was much needed!  The life coach was there, but to me it seemed as if the women quickly realized that they were able to get past the situations and accepted there faults in the arguments.  Everything seemed pretty petty at the end of the day anyway.

It was refreshing to see the ladies come to an understanding as quickly as they did.  Tameka expressed her contemplating suicide which is why Torrei's comments hurt her the most. Torrei admitted that she aims to hurt people in arguments but never intended for Tameka to feel like she wanted her to commit suicide.  I guess that's a reason we should all at least TRY to think before we say things.  I knooooowwwwww that is a challenge for me sometimes lol. ESPECIALLY in a heated situation. I'm working on it tho :)  I was honestly planning to stop watching this show after last week, but last nigh's episode reeled me back in...

Christina Johnson is my favorite cast member.  She is really down to earth, and seems to be a good friend. She is the voice of reason in the group.  I say that because she speaks up when necessary and she listens to all sides of the story and calls everyone out on their SUGAR HONEY ICE TEA as a friend should!  Not only that she is gorgeous!!!  I felt bad that Christina wanted to stop dating Willie because of he and Monica's previous encounter.  Christina and Willie seemed to have really hit it off!  I can understand the discomfort or awkwardness of knowing about his past and being friends with Monica even, but I would let the past be just that.  If Monica didn't have a problem with it and she gave her blessing then move forward is what I say.  He may have been her treasure! lol

Hopefully these ladies can at least remain cordial.  It would be nice to watch a show where black women are being portrayed in a more positive light.  NOW I AM NOT SAYING that I don't enjoy ratchet reality tv BECAUSE I DO!  I'm just saying that is not the only thing I want to see.  Some of these people are actually trying to better themselves and make negative issues into positive ones.  These producers need to be more considerate of that.  People will watch positive tv if they provide it!


Well I could go on and on but I won't.  Thanks for chilling with your boy today.  Remember if you didn't hear it anywhere else you know that...

#JareBearSaidIt