Hollywood Divas (You haven't seen shade 'til NOW!)

How shady are these Ladies?? Let me count the ways!!



1.  Elise is clearly the ultimate diva so far.  She has made it very clear that she is above all of the other actresses on the show.  This blows my mind because I always thought she was one of the corniest actresses on TV!!!! (Shady moment!)  Once Paula came to her with the project she had planned, Elise was very skeptical from the gate.  She was made aware that other women would be involved in the project and she wanted no involvement unless the women were on what she feels is her level in the industry.  tsk tsk tsk!  I'll get back to her!


2.  Golden Brooks met crossed paths with Countess Vaughn in an acting class.  Golden was exuding shade the moment she walked through the door and Countess turned around to greet her!!  I felt it if Countess didn't.  BUT WAIT...what's all the shade about boo...yall are in the same acting class  AND both of your old shows are on rerun SO WHAT'S THE TEA GOLDEN???  Somebody help me understand.  The two ladies were put together in an improv scenario and it was not hard to tell that the ladies took it up a notch.  They were both showcasing good talent, but they were coming for each other and from my point of view Miss Golden started the reading session!  Countess is no amateur though because as subtle as it may have seemed, she through jabs right back to Golden EASY!

3.  Lisa Wu GIRRRRRRRLLLLLLLLL I know you packed your boxing gloves for this trip to LA!!!  Now most of yall may know that Lisa was one of the original Housewives of Atlanta.  What many don't know about her is that she is from California and has worked in the industry for many years.  These actresses cannot take that she has been invited to join them for Paula's project.  You know coming from "reality tv" and all.  They didn't give the girl a chance at first meeting.   It was a mess how rude they were!!


4.  I was shocked to find out Paula was living in a motel with her husband and son!!!  I thought she was well off.  I mean I do realize she hasn't had too much recent success, but I just assumed she was one of those actresses who took some time to work behind the scenes.  WHERE DOES THE MONEY GO???? She has put in a lot of work during her career!  I was baffled!  Miss thang needs to get it together though.  I am so confused at why she would want to bring all of these women together and then be shady toward them all at the same time.  It seems as though she is bitter towards 2 out of four of the women so why did she bring them on??  That just seems a little weird to be but whatever works for her I guess.

5.  I don't know about you guys but I was extremely happy to see Countess back on tv!  I love her through it all.  It would be amazing to see her get her career back on track.  People still love and support her, but it is definitely time for some new roles and Kim is a great actress.  I pray that her confidence level can be restored and that she can be happy with her self because it is sad to see anyone struggle with self acceptance and not fitting in.  I just hope these girls don't get too rude to her because she already seems uncomfortable around them.  They are a little bourgeoisie and they seemed to ignore her a lot when they were all together.  Honestly I think that is sad because she paved the way for all of their careers!!!

This show could be a train wreck!  I mean when will these divas learn that whenever you sign up to do a show like this that means you are all on the same level!!! Now it is your job to work together to come up!!!  The black community in entertainment need to really become more graceful.  Cliques and groups are understandable because that is just a natural thing that happens with the human race.  People just need to learn to be more respectful and helpful.  Maybe that's a dream world, but all of these women were dreamers before they were stars and the made things happen.  It's time to start making things happen again.  More heads are better than one so they might as well join forces and get their power back!  Hollywood waits for no one, but fans do and fans want to see good spirited people!  Don't disappoint us Divas!


First episode was deep!!  Hope you guys enjoyed this review :)  Until next time...

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Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (There is some love in Hip Hop!)

I'mma dive right in!!!

WHEN will certain women learn.  Berg could not be making it anymore clear that he wants no relationship with Hazel E.  He doesn't want a relationship with anyone for that matter!!  She didn't see that he had to get drunk to even sleep with her. THIS IS SOME SAD ish!  Then the chick had to to wake up to him being in the next room instead of boo loving with her.  Well it gets to the point where you stop being mad at the guy and start being mad at the girl.  LEAVE HIS ASS ALONE!!!  If you looking for love and to be held down then you need to look somewhere else Hazel E dang!  I'm fed up with that nonsense.  How in the world do you sit on camera crying about a dude who has told you time and time again he isn't settling down.  There is weak and there is dumb.  I'm not name calling I'm just saying what's out there.  You guys can determine what to do with the words.  ;)  

Omarion's momma got to come better.   How do you show up to a young woman's baby shower and totally disrespect her.  Why couldn't Momma O (that's what Imma call her) just stay at home if she was't feeling it.  Apryl seems very strong, but why should she have to stress when she is however many months pregnant and at her own damn shower???  That just floors me that people are so inconsiderate.  It's your son's child in there Momma O!!!  Get it together. Apryl is better than most people I know because "I love you babe, but your mom has to vacate the premises.  She is team WAY too much.  A person who is ill and acts like that makes it hard for you to even feel bad about them being sick.  Yall can correct me if yall think I'm wrong, but my compassion would go out of the window when the disrespect started!  

Fizz & his girl seem to be doing pretty well.  Fizz is stepping up and seems to be really relationship oriented.  It is not hard to understand why his girl would be a little hesitant about becoming a family with another womans child.  It is a huge responsibility and she should be allowed some time to decide.  I will say this though.  Fizz you have let the world know that she has been unfaithful to you once so now we are looking at her with different  eyes than we were last week.  She may be worried about the baby momma drama, but if he is wearing his heart on his sleeve as it appears then he needs to be careful and make sure he is protecting himself and his son.  

Morgan Morgan Morgan!!!  The typical reality show trouble maker.  She is the passive aggressor and two faced chick.  I guess I can't be too mad at her since she knows her role and plays the part.  If she wasn't starting mess pretending to cover it in "bringing the girls together"  she would have no relevance on the show.  Most shows need their Morgan, as annoying as she may be!

The little love triangle between Mally and the two chicks we don't know is just pathetic.  The main reason is because this dude is not even hot!  I mean not to be fighting over especially.  I don't even know what else to say about that situation because both ladies got played and until they realize that & stop pointing the finger at each other, they won't have a clue!  Sad I know...

IF THAT GIRL MOVES IN WITH SOULJAH BOY #nuffsaid

Same time next week!  

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R&B Divas LA ( It ain't ovahhhhh yet!)

Finally caught up on Pt. 2 of the "LOVELY"  R & B Divas LA Reunion Special!!  What a messy good mess!!!... NOT REALLY THOUGH.   It is actually quite sad to see the situation at hand because all of the Divas are truly lovable and respectable women.  For these reasons it is pretty hard for me to understand why egos cannot be put aside in order to get some good work done.  It is my opinion that these ladies along with most of today's people in entertainment, need to learn when to fall back from social media.  All of the Divas have their own set of following and fans for different reasons.  When a bunch of people you don't even know are telling you how great you are and how they feel about you word for word everyday, that can definitely have an effect on what you think of yourself.  I believe that a lot of artist are influenced this way, which is why they end up bumping heads based on feelings of status rather than professionalism and a kind heart.

I don't believe that the ladies are wrong for feeling ill towards Chante Moore, because it was more than clear that Chante rubbed them the wrong way.  I think that Chante's bark is bigger than her bite, and she barked in one too many directions.  Now that the barking is coming back it's coming from a pack of wolves (just a metaphor!)  and she was CLEARLY not prepared for what she pretty much conjured up.  Sometimes a chihuahua can be very feisty vs another pup, but place a chihuahua in the ring with five pitbuls and the TACO BELL dog doesn't stand a chance.  Chante was going through somethings and that can bring out the worst in a person, but it seems that Chante has the biggest ego of all of the ladies because of her careers twenty year span.  That is all well and good, but when your last hit was almost twenty years ago..... *sips tea*

I mean I'm STILL trying to figure out why Chrisette joined the show.  I'm beginning to think maybe she has some money to pay back somewhere or something because I thought all of her albums were very successful!  I mean maybe she needed to expand her fan base, because I do know that a lot of people I know were not listeners of her music BUT I LOVE HER MUSIC.  It is also probably very safe to say that she has a whole new group of fans added to her following and they are probably either 7 years old or in the looney bin! #NoShade IJS! lol


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My girl Lil Mo was turned up at the reunion, maybe a little too turnt if I do say so myself.  I bangs with Mo heavy, but I felt like her cold shoulder could have been a little warmer.  Chante deserved some backlash no doubt, but when you consider someone a friend, and they mess up, you really have to reevaluate everything before you just go full on mean girl towards the person.  I understood Mo's pain from how she felt treated and ignored by Chante.  That is when she should have left the cameras and the other ladies behind and went to talk to her girl on some "this is me and you bish" type ish!  Sometimes a group of people being mad together isn't the best solution to trying to preserve a friendship.  Honestly all of these ladies could still maintain a great working relationship because with all of the anguish Chante has caused.  She has been hurt as well, and she is clearly open to rekindling.  You can see it all in her face.  She just now needs to remain humble, and ALSO realize that she is not the most popular girl in high school, but an R & B Diva and as long as she is on the show with the other Ladies, they are all equals players on the squad!  SQUAD UP AND GET COINS LADIES SHEESH!!!

DM To Claudette (in case she reads this)
Claudette maybe your silent but deadly ways are what is needed sometimes.  In all of it I understand your spirit, because you have not changed not one bit.  You stand firm in wanting the ladies to come together and

@MyClaudette

you also maintain your position as the most respectful.  Thank you for not being rude and catty.  It goes a long way.  If Chrisette can't tell the difference between "you don't know me"  and "YOU DON'T KNOW ME"  then she wouldn't have been prepared for what you really had to offer in that aspect anyway.  It seems like you scared the SUGAR HONEY ICED TEA out of her without even being aggressive so I couldn't imagine how Chrissette would have reacted if you would have been loud or even stood up!!!  Just my little   observation.


Well Big up's to Wendy Williams for asking all of the juicy questions we all want to know the answers to.  The Diva's have landed a third season so I guess we will be seeing them all together again next year.  Until then guys keep following ME @JareBearSays as I will continue to bring you the reviews on the latest reality tv shows and the blog posts on IG/Twitter/Tumblr & FB!!!  You may not hear it all here first but just know........

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Love & Hip Hop & R 'n' B

THIS SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII IS RATCHET

YES I SAID IT...BUT DID I EVEN HAVE TO?????  If you follow me on twitter then you know I was going innnnnnnnnnnnnnn last night!! lol Thanks for all of the favorites and retweets!  I was just saying how I felt!!

If Ray J is responsible for this Hollywood madness then I am not surprised at all.  He is a CORN BALL.com and needs to be addressed as such.  Honestly he has sold out his "homies" by exploiting them on this show.  Even if editing is to blame, when does a person put down their fut to say "no you can not air this mess?"  Besides that why was Ray being such a lil BISSSSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH to his assistant??  Not to mention him showing up to drop that box of junk of to Teairra!!!  

Speaking of Teairra, which seems to be happening a lot these days!  Is it safe to say that she has found her role as the crazy chick from Love & Hip Hop?  Will her music career officially fade to black???  I would love to ask Teairra some questions so if you are reading this T GET AT ME!!!!

Teairra's drama is being dragged out unnecessarily.  Why do they want to focus on her arguing and fighting with a friend of hers when they KNOW this girl is a talented artist.  She has already proven her self and will now have to keep defending her "craziness" because that is all VH1 will probably show!  Sad I know.  

I have repeatedly said that I don't believe that Omarion and Fizz should have been a part of this show.  They probably would have been better off doing their own thing!  "Love & R'n'B"  #JAREBEARSAIDIT  lol  At least it can be said that their situations seem authentic and they are looking good on camera because they are not putting on for the cameras.  Their stories are real and the are staying true to themselves.  I mean you can't write that shiiiii that Fizz's baby momma is pulling.  That chick is wacked out smh...

Souljah Boy is pitiful.  He shouldn't even have air time.  He does not want to grow up, and while I pray for him, I don't see him growing up any time soon.  Some people just don't have good morals and he seems like one of those people.  I don't know what Nia sees, but guuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllllllllllll you need to RUN!  While you are young and have no kids by this dude you need to get far away!!

I used to be a Yung Berg fan, back when he was a rapper.  This guy on tv is not cool.  I mean everyone isn't  going to be an awesome person, but this dude has no respect for women.  He owns it though that's for sure.  He get's real ridiculous on social media with some of the things he says.  Sadly enough he has thousands of followers agreeing with his ways and egging him on.  LADIES if you love yourself DON'T DATE HIM!!!!!

The mess continues to unfold...

I'll keep watching & big shout out to all of you who support JareBearSays!  You guys are AWESOME!

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Survivor's Remorse | First Look Trailer | STARZ

A First Look at Starz new comedy premiering this Fall 2014!

SURVIVOR'S REMORSE

Starring

Jessie T. Usher

RonReaco Lee

Erica Ash

Tichina Arnold

Mike Epps

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (Melodramaaaaaaaaaaaaaa)

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood is  two episodes in after last nights show.  Were you watching??  I have to be honest.  I feel like this show is a little weak.  The drama is unfolding, but at what cost??

It seems like friendships are being broken just for camera time and drama!  I mean Ray J's assistant is clearly playing both sides when it comes to her friendship with he and Teairra.  She talked mad mess behind Teairra's back on the first episode.  Then she turns around and calls herself defending her during T's spas out at the RayJ.com party, but turns right around talks mess on her again in the midst of the commotion.   Wait a minute tho...  THEN SHE IS GOIN TO BE BACK TO DEFENDING HER AGAIN WHEN SHE MEETS WITH RAY NEXT EPISODE!!!   Oooool I wish I had emojis on this laptop!!!!  These chicks clearly never were friends.  I think Teairra should see that the assistant chick was only on her team while she was on Ray J's team.  The two girls may have thought they were friends, but they NEVER were and they should just leave it at that.  (Only observations not facts!)


Now for the melodrama.  IF TEAIRRA DOES NOT STOP WITH HER RAH RAH ANTICS!!!  I just feel like if you are tough you don't have to prove it all of the time.  If you are an ass kicker it will show when you kick some ass.  People will begin to recognize that you kick ass and some may fall back and some may kick your ass back! lol I'm just saying.  It seems like in every scene Teairra has to basically make it known "that she ain't the one."  This makes her appear to be somewhat insecure, and somewhat of a bully.

 From the outside looking in however, I see that Teairra may have some serious trust issues, and from the looks of things she may have every right.  It seems like she has been played on all angles from friendships to relationships.  This is what probably makes her lash out.  Now I'm no Psychologist but I can understand when a person feels like they have to be on attack mode because of distrust.  The smart thing would be to remove yourself from the situation rather than lose yourself in it.  JAREBEARSAYS  Teairra's talent cannot be denied, but this show can either hurt or help her career.  It's not looking good tho T.  Leave the heartbreak in the past and move forward boo.  If you are going to use Love & Hip Hop to rebuild your career and fan base, then give these women and girls out here something positive to look to.  We all love a little drama.  That is why we watch, but we also love to see people prosper so get to work!

Fizz is having baby mama drama.  I don't even think it is cool.  I say this because his bm is coo coo!!!  She cannot be concerned about her son.  She is causing unecessary drama all in the name of her son.  She is coming between Fizz's two year relationship.  It is sad to say, but the girl is a mess.  She is not over Fizz and anyone watching knows it.  She still hasn't asked to see her son in all of this, but shes having meetings with the girlfriend.  IS THIS CHICK SERIOUS???  Actions speak LOUD!  How are you calling this girl to a restaurant to sit across from her and call her names.  It was so ratchet.  She doesn't even know Fizz's girl but the girl is raising her child.  Why can't she thank her for being there when she isn't able to be.  For making sure her son gets home from school safely.  I don't get it.  Why make problems where there should be none?  This chick is looney.  That's all there is to that.


Yung Berg is a talented producer... #Thatsall


Souljah Boy...Uggghhhhh I don't even like to say that name.  It's no shade...ok yes it is!  That dude gross's me out.  Anyway...Why is Nia surprised about the info she received about he and Karrine??  You have been dating this dude on and off for 8 years and everything he has done in those years have been the focus of hip hop media.  I mean it's not wrong to feel hopeful that some one can change or be better, but COME ONNNNNNNNN this clown is not that person.  Not at this point in his life anyway.  He was so quick to find the dumbest reason to dismiss her at the studio when she came to talk to him.  It was not hard to see that he knew he was wrong, and chose not to deal with it by making her feel bad about it.    I hate to be negative, but some of these people just take you there!!




All of the artist on the show should rethink their purpose before they continue to down grade themselves.  Reality tv is a fad and can be gone tomorrow like the last big thing.  Will these stars be around after reality tv or will they fade to black... I guess we'll have to wait to see.  I'm not going to go on because there will be more to discuss next week.  So if you didn't get it anywhere else at least you know....

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