Fix My Choir! (That's the name of this show!!!)

Fix My Choir is an amazing new show on Oxygen Network!  If you have not had an opportunity to check it out, then make sure you tune in ASAP!  When the promotion for this show began I was just excited to see Michelle Williams and Deitrick Haddon in what I thought was going to be some type of choir competition show.  Fix My Choir is much more than that.  Michelle and Deitrick have set out to travel the nation

searching for Choirs that need help getting back to where they once were.  But this is not only about the choirs vocal abilities as it is about the choirs abilities to work together as a whole.

So far we have been introduced to some amazing choirs and on last night's episode we got to know Victor Bell and Halel.  Victor Bell is the leader of the Gospel music group Victor Bell and Halel.  In 2009 the group was set to do a live recorded concert.  Tickets were sold and hopes were high, but the devastation of a terrible California storm would put a hold on the show, and a dark cloud over the group.

  Victor shut down after the storm ended their recording session.  He walked away from his group and left them feeling alone and embarrassed.  People were upset that they bought tickets to the show, and the members of the choir were left to defend themselves without a leader, which caused a lot of tension.  After a long break Victor decided to revive the choir and even recruited some new members.  This seemed like a marvelous idea except for the fact that he wasn't finished solving what was already wrong with the original choir and its members.


Michelle and Deitrick have stepped in and with the help from the spirit of God, were able to get these choir members to open up and reveal their issues with the past, the present, and the future.  They did some wonderful group exercises that helped the new and seasoned members set aside their differences and come together.  Deitrick and Michelle only have five days to work with these choirs, and although Rome wasn't built in a day, God created this world in 6 days and so I'm sure he would bless his children to be able to work through minor situations in a short time.


The concert was a hit, and everyone seemed like they were pleased, especially the skeptical audience members who felt like they were left hanging the first time around.  Fix My Choir has absolutely been a blessing to watch.  Oxygen has hit a homerun with this one!  Be sure to get your dose of Fix My Choir every Wednesday night!  You will be blessed!   Thanks for reading :)

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Aaliyah: Princess of R&B (Movie Review)

Ok so I'm sure some of you want to know what I thought about the Aaliyah movie so here it goes...

After watching Aaliyah: Princess of R & B I must say that I have an opinion!!  While most trashed the movie as AWFUL and Crap, I sadly agree.  I don't, however believe that is ALL it was.  This movie was clearly very rushed.  Everything we saw in the movie were things we already knew so that script fell flat from the jump.  The actors were not the best, but I have to give it up to Alexandra Shipp for putting on a brave face and not being afraid of the scrutiny.  She has proven herself a talented actress and I still think she was a good Aaliyah. She danced well and her voice is amazing.  Needless to say the girl is gorgeous so people can keep hating on her all they want, but that's all that they would be doing.  The other actors were lack luster performers.  While the actors who played Missy and Timberland sounded almost exactly like the real deal when they spoke, their actual actions reminded you nothing of the legendary producers.  Although her role was short, Elise Neal was SURPRISINGLY a good Gladys Knight.  There is really no need to discuss anyone else!  

Now for the tea & shade...

This is one time Wendy should take responsibility.  It sucks that she will not admit that the movie was not good.  She insisted on doing it, which I don't think was a problem.  I do think that if you are going to get behind a project and force the issue then you should make sure things are kind of perfect.  I mean it shows that it only took a few weeks to film the movie.  Of course the movie was going to be highly rated because everyone was hoping for something amazing so all that bull about "at least you watched" or "you were watching" is just plain disrespect to the audience.  Why wouldn't everyone watch.  It was made to seem like the production company and Lifetime was going to have it together with or without the release of music and information from Aaliyah's family.

 There have been legendary films that did not go to the big screen and those films portrayed the good and the bad of artist.  Just take The Temptations made for tv movie for example.  That film is still played on television to this day and people love to watch.  Not only that, PEOPLE STILL LOVE THE TEMPTATIONS.  

This film has made a mockery, but I think Aaliyah's people are at fault for that.  What's that old saying??  Oh yeah "the show must go on."  Well it did, and look what happened.  Now all of the negative post on social media is what this girls name is wrapped around, and although extremely funny these post are, I ask if it is worth the laugh to be the butt of a joke, or would it have been triumphant to have a film that was worth the encore Lifetime will still show over and over REGARDLESS.

Now would be the time to start casting for "The Offical story of Aaliayh"  because she is still worth it to clean up a mess.  Oh and Miss Wendy honey!!!  THE NEXT TIME YOU THINK IT IS OKAY TO LEAVE OUT THE PLANE CRASH IN ANY MOVIE, SOME ONE IS GONNA SEND FOR YOU MMMKAYYYYYY.  YOU TRIED IT.  HOW IN THE WORLD IS A MOVIE SUPPOSED TO END WITHOUT ALL OF EVERYONE CRYING FOUNTAINS OF TEARS????????  THAT WAS JUST TACKY AND SENSELESS.  

How ever you want to spin it the film was an overall disappointment.  Aaliyah is still the superstar she was and that is all that matters in the end.  See you at the Whitney premiere!!!

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Tamar & Vince (Couples retreat???)

Tamar and Vince were in Cabo San Lucas on last nights episode.  What was supposed to start out as a fun couples retreat turned into the getaway from hell for a moment.

Since Vince asked his wife not to be on Instagram while they were on the trip all hell broke loose when
he saw a pic that Tamar claims to have innocently reposted.

SEE WHAT HAD HAPPENED WAS (Tamar Voice)  Mrs. Braxton-Hubert says she was using the bathroom and being as though she planned to be on the latrine a little longer than a number one she needed something to read.  Tamar decided to take her phone with her to the facilities, which is when the repost happened and pissed Sir Hubert all the way off.

During a yoga session Vince was no where to be found and when Tamar went calling.............BANGING AND YELLING King Hubert could not take and began to express his anger toward his wife.  Lol

Tamar likes to believe their fight was alllllllllll about Instagram, and while Vince wanted her to just hush, after a lot of back and forth, he expressed that it wasn't about Instagram really, but about her mouth which he is constantly saying is out of control.  I'LL LET YALL BE THE JUDGE.

Any who...

Vince and Tamar did not travel alone.  They invited best friends Lashawn and his wife April along with Tamar's friend Terrell and his boyfriend Ben.  Terrell and Ben's presence sparked a whole new issue when Lashawn began to show his discomfort with Terrell and Ben being their and their public displays of affection.  After some drinks and getting Tamar and Vince back on track the couples headed to dinner where Lashawn expressed his reasons for being against homosexuality due to his christian upbringing.  When Ben conversed

with Lashawn he was able to educate him on his own christian upbringing and values which led to a coming together of sorts.  Let's just say Ben was man enough to apologize, say he was learning what he didn't know, and even expressed his love for Terrell for knowing him as a person and friend first!  I personally felt like a real breakthrough took place in that moment.  

Now I am not saying that ANYONE should have to accept or believe something they don't believe in, but respect is the ultimate in it all.  It is kind of hard for me to here a person tell a person that they are living the Christian way respect the bible and what the bible says, but still contradict it all at the same time!!  Lashawn was saying all of those things while sitting at the same table with these guys downing shots of tequila and if I am not mistaking he woke up with the hangover... #Tea #NoShade


All and all it was a very good episode of Tamar and Vince.  I feel like this was one of their better shows.  It was also fun to watch everyone at the beach.  Tamar running from invisible jelly fish, Lashawn scary behind running from water, and Vince running from the damn jet ski!!!!  That was all a hoot.


Well my good people...It's time for me to peace out for now.  Thanks for reading.  If you didn't get to see the show I hope this helped!!  Later guys and tell a friend to tell a friend that....

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Hollywood Divas (That's Questionable!)

These Hollywood Divas have totally lost me.  They are giving the word DIVA it's old meaning back!!  These cats will scratch and bite and scratch some more!!!!

I am not understanding this groups dynamic at all.  More importantly how or WHY it even got started.  If this show was the idea of Paula Jai Parker or bringing the girls together was her idea, then why in the world would't she choose to work with people she actually likes??

Don't get me wrong I get that all of these ladies "feel" like they are professionals, but this show is a hot mess.  I was so down for this show before it aired.  I even ignored the skeptics who predicted that a mess was unfolding.  Hollywood Diva's have done nothing but disappoint so far.  The egos of these women are terrible.  Besides Countess Vaughn, the rest of these women need a huge ego check.  As I said before, when will these so called divas realize that they agreed to come on the show because their careers were obviously lackluster.  Wouldn't it be a smart thing to ACTUALLY work TOGETHER to do an amazing project that the fans would love to see?!?!?

I keep watching in hopes that they will figure something out.  Golden just seems like she has to have all of the attention.  It's like she has to be glorified to feel important.  People are not going to continue to glorify Maya.  You have to get into Golden and stop complaining and nit picking with the other ladies.  Elise is almost 50 years old and honestly she never sold it as a burlesque dancer which is why the Pussy Cat Dolls probably said "we got this boo you just keep acting" #JustTea #NoShade

Lisa Wu is being Lisa Wu.  She is a reality star.  Put producer/actor/writer behind her name and that is all well and good.  The truth of the matter is, however, that Lisa Wu is a reality star.  She put a lot of time in on The Real Housewives of Atlanta so she knows how to play the game.  Lisa has this show on lock better than the "Ac-Tor's" as a lot of them liked to say it on last night's episode.  Lisa is doing some petty drama stirring.  I am not surprised by her actions at all, because although I think she is honestly a good person.  She knows how to sell the show.

Countess Vaughn should probably be a little more firm in her position as well.  She can have more respect if she just demands it in the right way.  I also feel like people like Countess have way more ideas and thoughts, but allow overbearing people to scare them out of expressing themselves.  Countess is very talented, but her intimidation is shining through more than anything.  It is kind of sad to watch because I am a huge fan!

I don't know what will come of this show in the next few weeks, but I am still hoping for something good.  Stay tuned!

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Hollywood Divas airs Wednesday nights at 10/9c on TVOne

K. Michelle - Love 'Em All (Official Music Video)

K. Michelle

"Love 'Em All"

The video!

K. Michelle My Life (She's Baaaaacccckkkkkk)

Kimberly Pate  aka K. Michelle is back on the TV screen.  This time ON HER OWN SHOW!

Thank you for this VH1.  "K. Michelle My Life" aired last night and for a season premiere it was on point!

 K introduced us to her new life in New York City.  She even introduced us to her son.  It is clear that she is trying a new approach to life and wants to reveal her more pleasant side.  K has expressed how she wants to be a bit different when dealing with the people around her.  Furthermore she wants to change the way she deals with people in the industry.  With that said she also did not fail to remind us of her past with some clips of previous experiences on reality TV.  To me that shows growth, and it is refreshing to see someone who can recognize their issues instead of denying everything all of the time like some other reality stars we know.


K Michelle kicked off her series with her friend Paris and make up artist/friend Jonathan.  Paris and Jonathan were not hard to immediately fall in love with.  They seem to be really good friends to K, and we all know good friends are hard to come by.  Paris is a pretty girl with mad energy.  She seems really fun and very
protective of K.  She also has that East Coast swagger that I live for being an East Coast guy myself! LoL
Jonathan appears to be very down to earth and trustworthy!  Seeing the person who makes my fave look even more gorgeous everyday is pretty cool.  He ain't hard on the eyes either!!!

But ummmmmmm Tracy tho!!!

OK so I am not one to straight bash someone I don't know personally so I wont.  Ok sometimes I will but not this time!  Tracy is K's friend who she fell out with because Tracy was spending K's money without permission.  That would be called a thief.  Tracy claimed that K was there while she used her card, but K says she had no idea and she was obviously pissed off about.  After not speaking to Tracy or accepting her calls, she finally decided that in order to get her dog back from Tracy she would have to deal with the situation at hand.

Jonathan, being the peacemaker decided that to keep K calm he would mediate the situation but when Tracy brought the dog over some hell did break loose!  At first Tracy didn't want to admit her wrongs which pissed K. Michelle all the way off.  K snapped at Tracy when Tracy tried to bring up K's past, which had absolutely nothing to do with their problem.  After some yelling and harsh words Tracy folded under the pressure and exited K's house.  Jonathan ran after her to get her to grow up and face her problem so that she could attempt to mend her friendship with K.  After what appeared to be a sincere apology from Tracy, K was able to calm down and even agreed to allow a homeless Tracy to stay with her.

 K Michelle is proving that she values friendships and that she also demands to be respected!  Who doesn't want those traits??

I am really looking forward to the rest of this season.  Next Monday can't get here fast enough.  Oh yeah and why my girl only get 30 minutes VH1????  WE WANT MORE K!!!!!!!  CTFU  Ok I'm out for now!  TTY guys Later!  Don't forget to tell a friend that...

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K. Michelle - #AWBAH Official Album Trailer

K. Michelle

"Anybody Wanna Buy A Heart"

#AWBAH

The Album

Available Everywhere Dec 9th!!!

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Tiny & Shekinah's Weave Trip (Bourbon Street Takeover!!!!)

Tiny and Shekinah have been on a hilarious journey during their Weave Trip.  The ladies have been up to their usual friendly fighting, but have been having an adventure none the less!

Shekinah & Tiny

They have decked out an amazing bus and transformed it into a mobile hair salon.  On last nights episode the duo stopped in Louisiana.  Their main goal was to throw a Mardis Gras party on the historically famous Bourbon Street.  While out dining on some of New Orleans famous beignets, Tiny and Shekinah were recognized by a fun group of girls who were part of a bridal party.  They were happy to meet the girls and even invited the ladies to come and party with them the next day.  What was more exciting for Tiny and Shekinah was the fact that Shekinah had her first opportunity to do some hair on the bus.  Although the women weren't Shekinah's usual clientele,  she was able to style the ladies hair and the clients were very pleased with the outcome.

So far so good Tiny and Shekinah.  This show is giving us more of what we love about these fun loving Divas!!!  Their personalities shine through in an amazing way.  Unlike a lot of other reality stars,  these two best friends are not afraid to be themselves.  They stay true to who they are and find a way not to let the shade of the industry turn them into "fake friends" or even turn them against each other.  There is definitely ratchetness all up in through the show #NoShade  but it is the ratchet that we love!!

JareBearSays that at the end of the day Tiny and Shekinah are proving that the are fabulous business women.  They  are clearly able to work together despite the bumps in the road! #NoPun  I am really enjoying this show.  I laugh more than a little bit every episode.  I'm still hoping to meet my girl Shekinah one day soon, but until then I will continue to follow what I believe is an amazing journey!!

Next Monday an all new episode airs on VH1!  If you haven't watched yet  YOU ARE MISSING OUT
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Hollywood Divas (You haven't seen shade 'til NOW!)

How shady are these Ladies?? Let me count the ways!!



1.  Elise is clearly the ultimate diva so far.  She has made it very clear that she is above all of the other actresses on the show.  This blows my mind because I always thought she was one of the corniest actresses on TV!!!! (Shady moment!)  Once Paula came to her with the project she had planned, Elise was very skeptical from the gate.  She was made aware that other women would be involved in the project and she wanted no involvement unless the women were on what she feels is her level in the industry.  tsk tsk tsk!  I'll get back to her!


2.  Golden Brooks met crossed paths with Countess Vaughn in an acting class.  Golden was exuding shade the moment she walked through the door and Countess turned around to greet her!!  I felt it if Countess didn't.  BUT WAIT...what's all the shade about boo...yall are in the same acting class  AND both of your old shows are on rerun SO WHAT'S THE TEA GOLDEN???  Somebody help me understand.  The two ladies were put together in an improv scenario and it was not hard to tell that the ladies took it up a notch.  They were both showcasing good talent, but they were coming for each other and from my point of view Miss Golden started the reading session!  Countess is no amateur though because as subtle as it may have seemed, she through jabs right back to Golden EASY!

3.  Lisa Wu GIRRRRRRRLLLLLLLLL I know you packed your boxing gloves for this trip to LA!!!  Now most of yall may know that Lisa was one of the original Housewives of Atlanta.  What many don't know about her is that she is from California and has worked in the industry for many years.  These actresses cannot take that she has been invited to join them for Paula's project.  You know coming from "reality tv" and all.  They didn't give the girl a chance at first meeting.   It was a mess how rude they were!!


4.  I was shocked to find out Paula was living in a motel with her husband and son!!!  I thought she was well off.  I mean I do realize she hasn't had too much recent success, but I just assumed she was one of those actresses who took some time to work behind the scenes.  WHERE DOES THE MONEY GO???? She has put in a lot of work during her career!  I was baffled!  Miss thang needs to get it together though.  I am so confused at why she would want to bring all of these women together and then be shady toward them all at the same time.  It seems as though she is bitter towards 2 out of four of the women so why did she bring them on??  That just seems a little weird to be but whatever works for her I guess.

5.  I don't know about you guys but I was extremely happy to see Countess back on tv!  I love her through it all.  It would be amazing to see her get her career back on track.  People still love and support her, but it is definitely time for some new roles and Kim is a great actress.  I pray that her confidence level can be restored and that she can be happy with her self because it is sad to see anyone struggle with self acceptance and not fitting in.  I just hope these girls don't get too rude to her because she already seems uncomfortable around them.  They are a little bourgeoisie and they seemed to ignore her a lot when they were all together.  Honestly I think that is sad because she paved the way for all of their careers!!!

This show could be a train wreck!  I mean when will these divas learn that whenever you sign up to do a show like this that means you are all on the same level!!! Now it is your job to work together to come up!!!  The black community in entertainment need to really become more graceful.  Cliques and groups are understandable because that is just a natural thing that happens with the human race.  People just need to learn to be more respectful and helpful.  Maybe that's a dream world, but all of these women were dreamers before they were stars and the made things happen.  It's time to start making things happen again.  More heads are better than one so they might as well join forces and get their power back!  Hollywood waits for no one, but fans do and fans want to see good spirited people!  Don't disappoint us Divas!


First episode was deep!!  Hope you guys enjoyed this review :)  Until next time...

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Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (There is some love in Hip Hop!)

I'mma dive right in!!!

WHEN will certain women learn.  Berg could not be making it anymore clear that he wants no relationship with Hazel E.  He doesn't want a relationship with anyone for that matter!!  She didn't see that he had to get drunk to even sleep with her. THIS IS SOME SAD ish!  Then the chick had to to wake up to him being in the next room instead of boo loving with her.  Well it gets to the point where you stop being mad at the guy and start being mad at the girl.  LEAVE HIS ASS ALONE!!!  If you looking for love and to be held down then you need to look somewhere else Hazel E dang!  I'm fed up with that nonsense.  How in the world do you sit on camera crying about a dude who has told you time and time again he isn't settling down.  There is weak and there is dumb.  I'm not name calling I'm just saying what's out there.  You guys can determine what to do with the words.  ;)  

Omarion's momma got to come better.   How do you show up to a young woman's baby shower and totally disrespect her.  Why couldn't Momma O (that's what Imma call her) just stay at home if she was't feeling it.  Apryl seems very strong, but why should she have to stress when she is however many months pregnant and at her own damn shower???  That just floors me that people are so inconsiderate.  It's your son's child in there Momma O!!!  Get it together. Apryl is better than most people I know because "I love you babe, but your mom has to vacate the premises.  She is team WAY too much.  A person who is ill and acts like that makes it hard for you to even feel bad about them being sick.  Yall can correct me if yall think I'm wrong, but my compassion would go out of the window when the disrespect started!  

Fizz & his girl seem to be doing pretty well.  Fizz is stepping up and seems to be really relationship oriented.  It is not hard to understand why his girl would be a little hesitant about becoming a family with another womans child.  It is a huge responsibility and she should be allowed some time to decide.  I will say this though.  Fizz you have let the world know that she has been unfaithful to you once so now we are looking at her with different  eyes than we were last week.  She may be worried about the baby momma drama, but if he is wearing his heart on his sleeve as it appears then he needs to be careful and make sure he is protecting himself and his son.  

Morgan Morgan Morgan!!!  The typical reality show trouble maker.  She is the passive aggressor and two faced chick.  I guess I can't be too mad at her since she knows her role and plays the part.  If she wasn't starting mess pretending to cover it in "bringing the girls together"  she would have no relevance on the show.  Most shows need their Morgan, as annoying as she may be!

The little love triangle between Mally and the two chicks we don't know is just pathetic.  The main reason is because this dude is not even hot!  I mean not to be fighting over especially.  I don't even know what else to say about that situation because both ladies got played and until they realize that & stop pointing the finger at each other, they won't have a clue!  Sad I know...

IF THAT GIRL MOVES IN WITH SOULJAH BOY #nuffsaid

Same time next week!  

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R&B Divas LA ( It ain't ovahhhhh yet!)

Finally caught up on Pt. 2 of the "LOVELY"  R & B Divas LA Reunion Special!!  What a messy good mess!!!... NOT REALLY THOUGH.   It is actually quite sad to see the situation at hand because all of the Divas are truly lovable and respectable women.  For these reasons it is pretty hard for me to understand why egos cannot be put aside in order to get some good work done.  It is my opinion that these ladies along with most of today's people in entertainment, need to learn when to fall back from social media.  All of the Divas have their own set of following and fans for different reasons.  When a bunch of people you don't even know are telling you how great you are and how they feel about you word for word everyday, that can definitely have an effect on what you think of yourself.  I believe that a lot of artist are influenced this way, which is why they end up bumping heads based on feelings of status rather than professionalism and a kind heart.

I don't believe that the ladies are wrong for feeling ill towards Chante Moore, because it was more than clear that Chante rubbed them the wrong way.  I think that Chante's bark is bigger than her bite, and she barked in one too many directions.  Now that the barking is coming back it's coming from a pack of wolves (just a metaphor!)  and she was CLEARLY not prepared for what she pretty much conjured up.  Sometimes a chihuahua can be very feisty vs another pup, but place a chihuahua in the ring with five pitbuls and the TACO BELL dog doesn't stand a chance.  Chante was going through somethings and that can bring out the worst in a person, but it seems that Chante has the biggest ego of all of the ladies because of her careers twenty year span.  That is all well and good, but when your last hit was almost twenty years ago..... *sips tea*

I mean I'm STILL trying to figure out why Chrisette joined the show.  I'm beginning to think maybe she has some money to pay back somewhere or something because I thought all of her albums were very successful!  I mean maybe she needed to expand her fan base, because I do know that a lot of people I know were not listeners of her music BUT I LOVE HER MUSIC.  It is also probably very safe to say that she has a whole new group of fans added to her following and they are probably either 7 years old or in the looney bin! #NoShade IJS! lol


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(New Album Coming Soon!)
My girl Lil Mo was turned up at the reunion, maybe a little too turnt if I do say so myself.  I bangs with Mo heavy, but I felt like her cold shoulder could have been a little warmer.  Chante deserved some backlash no doubt, but when you consider someone a friend, and they mess up, you really have to reevaluate everything before you just go full on mean girl towards the person.  I understood Mo's pain from how she felt treated and ignored by Chante.  That is when she should have left the cameras and the other ladies behind and went to talk to her girl on some "this is me and you bish" type ish!  Sometimes a group of people being mad together isn't the best solution to trying to preserve a friendship.  Honestly all of these ladies could still maintain a great working relationship because with all of the anguish Chante has caused.  She has been hurt as well, and she is clearly open to rekindling.  You can see it all in her face.  She just now needs to remain humble, and ALSO realize that she is not the most popular girl in high school, but an R & B Diva and as long as she is on the show with the other Ladies, they are all equals players on the squad!  SQUAD UP AND GET COINS LADIES SHEESH!!!

DM To Claudette (in case she reads this)
Claudette maybe your silent but deadly ways are what is needed sometimes.  In all of it I understand your spirit, because you have not changed not one bit.  You stand firm in wanting the ladies to come together and

@MyClaudette

you also maintain your position as the most respectful.  Thank you for not being rude and catty.  It goes a long way.  If Chrisette can't tell the difference between "you don't know me"  and "YOU DON'T KNOW ME"  then she wouldn't have been prepared for what you really had to offer in that aspect anyway.  It seems like you scared the SUGAR HONEY ICED TEA out of her without even being aggressive so I couldn't imagine how Chrissette would have reacted if you would have been loud or even stood up!!!  Just my little   observation.


Well Big up's to Wendy Williams for asking all of the juicy questions we all want to know the answers to.  The Diva's have landed a third season so I guess we will be seeing them all together again next year.  Until then guys keep following ME @JareBearSays as I will continue to bring you the reviews on the latest reality tv shows and the blog posts on IG/Twitter/Tumblr & FB!!!  You may not hear it all here first but just know........

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Mila J - My Main ft. Ty Dolla $ign

@MilaJ      

New music video from the sexy and talented Miss Mila J!!!

  

Love & Hip Hop & R 'n' B

THIS SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII IS RATCHET

YES I SAID IT...BUT DID I EVEN HAVE TO?????  If you follow me on twitter then you know I was going innnnnnnnnnnnnnn last night!! lol Thanks for all of the favorites and retweets!  I was just saying how I felt!!

If Ray J is responsible for this Hollywood madness then I am not surprised at all.  He is a CORN BALL.com and needs to be addressed as such.  Honestly he has sold out his "homies" by exploiting them on this show.  Even if editing is to blame, when does a person put down their fut to say "no you can not air this mess?"  Besides that why was Ray being such a lil BISSSSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH to his assistant??  Not to mention him showing up to drop that box of junk of to Teairra!!!  

Speaking of Teairra, which seems to be happening a lot these days!  Is it safe to say that she has found her role as the crazy chick from Love & Hip Hop?  Will her music career officially fade to black???  I would love to ask Teairra some questions so if you are reading this T GET AT ME!!!!

Teairra's drama is being dragged out unnecessarily.  Why do they want to focus on her arguing and fighting with a friend of hers when they KNOW this girl is a talented artist.  She has already proven her self and will now have to keep defending her "craziness" because that is all VH1 will probably show!  Sad I know.  

I have repeatedly said that I don't believe that Omarion and Fizz should have been a part of this show.  They probably would have been better off doing their own thing!  "Love & R'n'B"  #JAREBEARSAIDIT  lol  At least it can be said that their situations seem authentic and they are looking good on camera because they are not putting on for the cameras.  Their stories are real and the are staying true to themselves.  I mean you can't write that shiiiii that Fizz's baby momma is pulling.  That chick is wacked out smh...

Souljah Boy is pitiful.  He shouldn't even have air time.  He does not want to grow up, and while I pray for him, I don't see him growing up any time soon.  Some people just don't have good morals and he seems like one of those people.  I don't know what Nia sees, but guuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllllllllllll you need to RUN!  While you are young and have no kids by this dude you need to get far away!!

I used to be a Yung Berg fan, back when he was a rapper.  This guy on tv is not cool.  I mean everyone isn't  going to be an awesome person, but this dude has no respect for women.  He owns it though that's for sure.  He get's real ridiculous on social media with some of the things he says.  Sadly enough he has thousands of followers agreeing with his ways and egging him on.  LADIES if you love yourself DON'T DATE HIM!!!!!

The mess continues to unfold...

I'll keep watching & big shout out to all of you who support JareBearSays!  You guys are AWESOME!

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Survivor's Remorse | First Look Trailer | STARZ

A First Look at Starz new comedy premiering this Fall 2014!

SURVIVOR'S REMORSE

Starring

Jessie T. Usher

RonReaco Lee

Erica Ash

Tichina Arnold

Mike Epps

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (Melodramaaaaaaaaaaaaaa)

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood is  two episodes in after last nights show.  Were you watching??  I have to be honest.  I feel like this show is a little weak.  The drama is unfolding, but at what cost??

It seems like friendships are being broken just for camera time and drama!  I mean Ray J's assistant is clearly playing both sides when it comes to her friendship with he and Teairra.  She talked mad mess behind Teairra's back on the first episode.  Then she turns around and calls herself defending her during T's spas out at the RayJ.com party, but turns right around talks mess on her again in the midst of the commotion.   Wait a minute tho...  THEN SHE IS GOIN TO BE BACK TO DEFENDING HER AGAIN WHEN SHE MEETS WITH RAY NEXT EPISODE!!!   Oooool I wish I had emojis on this laptop!!!!  These chicks clearly never were friends.  I think Teairra should see that the assistant chick was only on her team while she was on Ray J's team.  The two girls may have thought they were friends, but they NEVER were and they should just leave it at that.  (Only observations not facts!)


Now for the melodrama.  IF TEAIRRA DOES NOT STOP WITH HER RAH RAH ANTICS!!!  I just feel like if you are tough you don't have to prove it all of the time.  If you are an ass kicker it will show when you kick some ass.  People will begin to recognize that you kick ass and some may fall back and some may kick your ass back! lol I'm just saying.  It seems like in every scene Teairra has to basically make it known "that she ain't the one."  This makes her appear to be somewhat insecure, and somewhat of a bully.

 From the outside looking in however, I see that Teairra may have some serious trust issues, and from the looks of things she may have every right.  It seems like she has been played on all angles from friendships to relationships.  This is what probably makes her lash out.  Now I'm no Psychologist but I can understand when a person feels like they have to be on attack mode because of distrust.  The smart thing would be to remove yourself from the situation rather than lose yourself in it.  JAREBEARSAYS  Teairra's talent cannot be denied, but this show can either hurt or help her career.  It's not looking good tho T.  Leave the heartbreak in the past and move forward boo.  If you are going to use Love & Hip Hop to rebuild your career and fan base, then give these women and girls out here something positive to look to.  We all love a little drama.  That is why we watch, but we also love to see people prosper so get to work!

Fizz is having baby mama drama.  I don't even think it is cool.  I say this because his bm is coo coo!!!  She cannot be concerned about her son.  She is causing unecessary drama all in the name of her son.  She is coming between Fizz's two year relationship.  It is sad to say, but the girl is a mess.  She is not over Fizz and anyone watching knows it.  She still hasn't asked to see her son in all of this, but shes having meetings with the girlfriend.  IS THIS CHICK SERIOUS???  Actions speak LOUD!  How are you calling this girl to a restaurant to sit across from her and call her names.  It was so ratchet.  She doesn't even know Fizz's girl but the girl is raising her child.  Why can't she thank her for being there when she isn't able to be.  For making sure her son gets home from school safely.  I don't get it.  Why make problems where there should be none?  This chick is looney.  That's all there is to that.


Yung Berg is a talented producer... #Thatsall


Souljah Boy...Uggghhhhh I don't even like to say that name.  It's no shade...ok yes it is!  That dude gross's me out.  Anyway...Why is Nia surprised about the info she received about he and Karrine??  You have been dating this dude on and off for 8 years and everything he has done in those years have been the focus of hip hop media.  I mean it's not wrong to feel hopeful that some one can change or be better, but COME ONNNNNNNNN this clown is not that person.  Not at this point in his life anyway.  He was so quick to find the dumbest reason to dismiss her at the studio when she came to talk to him.  It was not hard to see that he knew he was wrong, and chose not to deal with it by making her feel bad about it.    I hate to be negative, but some of these people just take you there!!




All of the artist on the show should rethink their purpose before they continue to down grade themselves.  Reality tv is a fad and can be gone tomorrow like the last big thing.  Will these stars be around after reality tv or will they fade to black... I guess we'll have to wait to see.  I'm not going to go on because there will be more to discuss next week.  So if you didn't get it anywhere else at least you know....

#JareBearSaidIt

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MCM!

JAREBEAR's #McM

INSTAGRAM:  @Ferras

Just wanted to share my #McM which I never do on my blog, but here it is!! I'm sure many will agree :)

Check out Ferras self-titled EP released through Katy Perry's Metamorphosis Music!

Atlanta Exes (Things get better before they get worse!!!)

Atlanta Exes get's better each week.  This weeks episode was very heartfelt if I do say so myself.  Torrei decided to set her differences ALL THE WAY aside and once again help Tomeka with one of her business ventures.  Torrei, who seems to like things organized and planned out became frustrated yet again when she realized Tomeka's lack of planning for her latest event.  For Tomeka to have an assistant, she is sure seeming like she is wasting her money if he is being paid.  But that's another story...





Monyetta Shaw (Neyo's ex) had some concerns about no longer being able to give birth to children since she and her former fiancee agreed they didn't want anymore children together.  The sad thing about her situation is that she and Ne-Yo are no longer together.  Monyetta is heartbroken that she may not be able to conceive a child with a future prince charming.  Monyetta visits her doctor who surprisingly has great news for her.  The Doctor made her aware that he could reverse her procedure and that there was a high chance of it being possible for her to have more children.  In fact he told her the chance was 85%!  I'm sure most people watching felt for Monyetta and were almost as happy as she was to find out the possibilities!  God will work when you don't even realize it!!

Christina has been having some doubts about her decision to break things off with Willie.  I was so happy to see that she had doubts.  I personally think that when a person has chemistry with someone they should give it a try.  Christina has admitted to being attached (for lack of a better word) to her ex husband Cee Lo, but after hearing the news that Cee Lo may be engaged, I think her reality kicked in.  Cee Lo is telling her who she can and cannot see, but he is engaged???? What a jerk!  lol but seriously though, Christina decided that she needs to be open to dating so that she can move on, and why not try it with a guy she connected with!  Willie oozes charm and confidence, and Christina clearly melts when she is around him.  All 6 foot 8 of Willie may be a new look for Christina, and it looks good!!  Cee Lo had the nerve to tell her she was't allowed to date Willie!!! LOL That is because he know his little ass can't do nothing with him! HaHa I'm only kidding, OR AM I?? Let's keep watching to see how this love triangle pans out!


Sheree had some emotional drama going on with her father.  Sheree and her father have been estranged for the last 15 years.  She wasn't even sure if her father was alive or not.  After traveling to Madison, Ga where
she last knew her father to be, Sheree was on board an emotional roller coaster.  She met a first cousin who told her that her father was back living in Kentucky and after reaching out to family members she was able to find her Dad.  Thankfully he was doing better than she had been forewarned and although he suffered some memory loss, he knew exactly who his daughter was.  This mad Sheree very happy and we all watched as she shared a beautiful moment with her father at the senior residence where he is living.


Next week the drama will pock back up, so try to let this weeks episode marinate so that we can remember that there are some positive things about the show that we do like!!  Sometimes I like to carry on, but I think I said it all for now... You may have heard it here and there... but right here you heard the best, and
that's because....

#JareBearSaidIt

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (New City, Same Game!)

Bye Bye Atlanta...

The series premiere of Love and Hip Hop took place last night  on vh1.  The newest addition to the franchise just happens to be in the city where dreams come to life.  Yeah that's right Hollywood, California.  With all that goes on in these television shows, you would think that the fact that they are filming this new series in Hollywood would give people a chance to actually see these artist hard at work on their careers.  WELL OF COURSE THAT IS NOT THE CASE!  Mona Scott is clearly not interested in shedding too much positive light on the participants of these shows and it is evident that these artist are just looking to maintain fame rather than actually rebuilding their careers.  TV IS ALL ABOUT RATINGS.  Most of them are lacking in the career department, which is why they even get involved with these shows.
                    @RayJ

Love & Hip Hop Hollywood stars Ray J who most of you know is an R&B singer/actor.  He formerly dated singer Teairra Marie, who is also a cast member.  She and Ray J are no longer in a relationship.  In fact Ray J actually has a new girlfriend who is also a part of the show.  I GUESS Teairra GOT THE MEMO A LITTLE TOO LATE because she acted out all up and through this episode.  Teairra is highly pissed off that Ray J has moved on.  She had it in her head that there was still a chance for her and Ray, but Ray shut that down.  In normal idiotic fashion Ray decides to invite Teairra to an event he had where his girlfriend would be as well.  His assistant Morgan warned Ray that it was a bad idea, but who does Ray J listen to??? So Teairra shows up, gets taunted by Ray's girlfriend, Princess Love, and Teairra get's in full attack mode!!!  Drinks flew and blows were thrown before security had to immediately stop things from going any further.

              @MissTMari

Teairra is a beautiful girl, but something aint right with her.  It could just be the Detroit in her, but she seems broken.  She has a very hard exterior for such a pretty girl and her anger is written all over her face.  I am no Dr, Phil and TRUST I have issues of my own that need to be worked on, but They put it on tv for us so Imma talk about it.  Teairra can really sing so why isn't she putting out music???  Well she admitted that she was dropped from her label, but looking at how she is acting so far on this show.  She may be scaring people like my FAVE used to do! lol Yall know who I'm talking about.  Teairra if you ever see this blog I just want you to know that we all got a lil crazy in us so I'm not judging you boo.  I just want to hear the music so please get back to it!  THANKS :)               @1OMARION

Omarion is on the show with his girlfriend, Apryl Jones, who is now his babies mother as well.  Now we all know Love & Hip Hop can't exist without some body letting their crazy mother get involved.  In the history of Love & Hip Hop you know that it takes a ratchet mother to stand behind a talented son and get all up in the middle of his ADULT LIFE!  Omarion's mother has made it clear what her role will be in the show right away.  WE SEE U MOMMA, but do we have to??????????????  IJS Anyway Omarion and his girlfriend seem to be happy together and since the shows taping they have welcomed their child into the world.  Omarion is pretty established in the music industry.  He is currently signed to Maybach Music Group where he will be releasing his upcoming album.  O seemed to get a lot of negative comments from people on twitter last night.  But like a man with good sense he brushed the haters off and retweeted plenty of positive tweets from his fans.  When you are talented and aware of what you have offered throughout your career the haters can't be anything but motivators.  Omarion needs to just stay focused and keep up the great work.  We see you!

Souljah Boy...
I'm not gonna go there.  I'd rather just watch the hot mess unfold.  I will say this though... Teddy Riley we are praying for you and your daughter.  She seems like a very nice girl who may want to consider a new boyfriend.  It's no shade but my daughter WOULD NOTTTTTTTTTT even be able to think about dating that guy!

             @AirFizzo

Fizz formerly of B2K has made his way back into the limelight.  He is definitely having some baby momma drama, which is sad because he appears to be responsible for his son.  I am most interested in his story line because a lot of black fathers do not get portrayed well on television.  It would be great to see a man step up to the plate while still trying to work hard and provide.  Idk what Fizz has been doing since B2K but he still has his looks and obviously still has his connections so we will just bid him good luck.  Hopefully this show will bring good things to him.  His baby mother on the other hand seems a little janky!!  YEAH I SAID IT!!! She a lil gold digger who doesn't seem too concerned about her son.  She is clearly more pissed off that she isn't with Fizz.  What the hell is up with these chicks still thinking that in 2014 having a baby will keep you and your man together?????  #NORELATIONSHIPGOALS


Were you sucked in by this new show?? Will you all be watching each week??  Let me know, and let me know your thoughts and opinions on this cast.  We can have discussion if you just comment below!!  Before I get out of her I will leave u with a little reminder.  If you didn't get the story anywhere else you know....

#JareBearSaidIt

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Preachers of L.A. (Family First)

I have grown to enjoy this show.  I was hesitant at first because I was't sure of the shows angle.  Were they exploiting the church?  Were they just trying to flash their money???  I even asked if they were really ordained!!!  One thing I did not consider in the beginning was that they were people just like you and I.  Yes guys preachers are people too! lol

Since the show first aired last year I have noticed a lot of viewers have had some of the same feelings I had, and via social media I have also noticed a lot of changes in thoughts and opinions.  I feel like these preachers came to television for a reason.  They want to spread the news about God and they want to show their lives in the process.  Anyone watching can see that these men and their families are just like everyone else in a sense.  We all have issues and we all want to overcome things in life.  I think this show portrays these families in a good light.

People need to understand that just because someone preaches the word of God, that doesn't mean they don't have to provide for their families.  Success should be for anyone who reaches for it.  If God allows a man or woman to have the finer things then why shouldn't that be okay??  A preacher has a very important job.  In my opinion one of the most important, and as long as they are doing their duties in a respectable manner, how they build their career around that should be their business.  All preachers are not poor and all preachers are not rich so somewhere in between all of that we as a people need to worry about our own salvation.  A lot of us lack in that we are so pressed about what one person has going on we can't even come out of our own mess.

Last night's episode was one of the most inspirational in the history of the show!!  To see Bishop Gibson and his wife be so spiritually moved to help out their family members was a blessing in its self.  A lot of people
will say that their decision shouldn't have been so hard or that they should have just given the house to their niece in the first place.  To those people I say this.  "It is not always as easy as it seems (this thing called life).  We all lose focus and fall short and sometimes we have to come out of things in our time.  Bishop Gibson's sister Shaun made her choices and so this caused her daughter to have to go through things.  God places people in our lives for reasons and at times that are not always to be explained.  Bishop Gibson and First Lady Lavette did a wonderful thing, and the fact that they were able to is even more wonderful, but it was in God's time.  It's easy to say that they could have been gave Erica and her boys the home to stay in, but who is to say Erica was always ready for that responsibility.  Her time is clearly now, and she was ever so grateful and appreciative.

       @WayneChaneyJr
Pastor Wayne and his wife Myesha Chaney were also dealing with some serious family issues this episode.  Pastor Wayne's mother came to him to tell him that she had recently had a disagreement with her other son Caleb.  Caleb who is younger than Wayne seems to be struggling with some personal issues regarding the love and treatment he receives from his mother.  Now I won't go to deep because I only know what I see on tv, but it does seem like there may be some underlying issues, and that it may take some time to get through them.  Pastor Wayne wants to get to the bottom of things because he doesn't want the negativity to continue between his family members.  It is sad to see that he gets pulled into the drama because he is successful, but that is nothing but the devil trying to mess up a good thing!!                                                                      
WONT THE DEVIL BRING SOME MESS TO YOU?!?!?!  Any way... First Lady Myesha threw an amazing surprise birthday party for her husband, and even with the little drama of Caleb showing up uninvited the party was still a success.                                                                                            
                                                @MyeshaChaney

It was all the Twitter last night when people saw that Pastor Wayne asked his brother to leave the party because he didn't want his mother to feel uncomfortable.  Fans of the show were really upset that he wanted his brother to leave.  I, along with many others think that was the right decision.  He made a decision based off of a recent blow up.  If he didn't ask his brother to leave that would just leave room for a possible confrontation, and no one knows but them how that could have turned out!                                    

All in all last nights episode was moving and I felt blessed watching!  I think I will do more post about the show in the future!! What do you guys think??  Well my good people I will be bringing the happenings soon enough, but BE SURE to remember if u didn't get it anywhere else u know......

#JareBearSaidIt