Basketball Wives? *FOUL ON THE PLAY*

this is officially my very first blog about the #BBWLA

I was not able to express myself the way I cared to about this show because of my Lent fast from social media.  NOW I AM READY  TO SPILL THE TEA!!!

This season of #BBWLA has been strangely entertaining.  Jackie Christie and the girls have kept the drama flowing like a consistent river.  I was surprised to hear that the last episode was the season finale because I did not collect that bit of info in advance.  With that said I am going to give my opinion on this season's finale.  I am not here to judge but only to voice my opinion and maybe entertain my good people at the same time.  I think that we should just get to it!

Let me start by saying that Jackie Christie must retire A.S.A.P.  I am a fan of the show since day one and have never enjoyed her presence.  I KNOW that I am not the only viewer who feels this way.  I must admit that I have hung with the older crowd since I was a kid, but I have NEVER allowed a childish adult to influence my life in such a negative way.  I think that Jackie is very manipulative, arrogant, and last but not least a SOCIOPATH!  I am almost certain that I am not the only one who believes that she instigates fights, hands out lies, and passes on drama to everyone she proclaims to be friends with on the show.  

Draya has finally grasped the concept of Mrs. Christie's ways.  Jackie is a clear example of a woman who wants to be a boss without boss credentials.  I personally blame VH1 for even giving her the time of day.  This blog post is not meant to get into specifics because if you watch the show... #nuffsaid

I'm going to make a long story short on this one only because I have been up all night, and now I need some time to myself.  VH1 should recast all of #BBWLA, give Draya her own show, and Malaysia should co-star.

Jackie needs to move far on, Sundy and Brittish should vacate the scene, and go on about the lateness they have carried through these awful episodes.  (keep that bull in their own real time.) Brandy should stay behind the camera and take care of herself, and Jackie's daughter ( I refuse to remember her name) should intervene on her simple ass momma and convince her that she needs to keep up with her meds.  

I will probably seem like a jerk for this post but I am very okay with that!  I feel like I spoke on this season as well as it deserves to be discussed.   #BBWLA may still be a highly rated show but I feel like it's time is up just like those Miami NOTS!!!  When all else fails head back to the drawing board.  Vh1 we love you but we need you to get it together...put our East Coast girls on TV #BBWNY #BBWNJ #BBWPHILA what's up????

 Talk to you all soon... be blessed and be a blessing!

                                                          *Two Fingaz*

                                                                    -Jare 

   

All Things Housewives! *The beatage was real*

So last nights episode of #RHOA is all the twitter.  The reunion kicked off to an exciting start.  The cast got dressed for the God's and might I say that all of the women looked lovely, but that'ts just my opinion!


Now let's get to it...

Once again this years reunion show opened up the library for many reads.  This year the librarian was yet again Phaedra Parks.   That girl can read you cover to cover if you are not careful of your approach to her.   Clearly she is still not feeling Miss Kenya Moore, but yall knew that.  Phaedra lit Kenya on fire when she told her "You can't be a housewife because you can't get a husband."  Kenya still claims to have a relationship with her African Prince that she has talked about all season long.  The cast is obviously not buying that this so called relationship exist...Andy doesn't seem convinced and NEITHER AM I!!! (THE SHADE IS REAL)  Even when Kenya tried to say that NeNe Leakes met her prince, NeNe denied that claim during the show saying that she never met him, and she did have an awkward moment in Beverly Hills where a man approached her but she did not know who he was or what she was talking about.  It came to be that it was Kenya's "African Prince" but that's not proof enough for our media driven minds!   Kenya if he is real bless his heart and teach him how to pronounce your name so NeNe won't be so confused next time!!


OK! The beatage...

LAWD would somebody please tell me why they would allow ANYONE to bring their silly little props on to the set of the reunion show tapings.  Andy and the producers need to eliminate that option immediately.  Not only is it corny, but it is classless and tacky.  The women need to just hash out the drama and leave the toys to the children.  What is the point in getting all glamm'd up in gowns and pounds of weave if your gonna be acting like a bunch of clowns. Anywho... I'm not saying that Porsha was right for dragging Miss Kenya Moore, but anyone with two eyes can see that she was being provoked and bullied as some like to say so obnoxiously.  Kenya was quick to yell out "get fired" and "she's gone" but does she not see where she was wrong in all of this??? BUT OF COURSE NOT.

JAREBEARSAYS violence is never the answer, but everyone has different reactions to different situations.  Porsha and Kenya could have handled the situation differently but I believe that both are suffering the consequences of their own actions.  I don't know what I would have done in that situation.  I will tell you this though, I wouldn't have been toting any props around the set.  Maybe the bullhorn took up too much space in Kenya's hands hence her not being able to protect herself from Porsha's wrath.   If Porsha has to leave the show I will be bummed.  If Kenya Moore stays in the cast I will be annoyed.  All in all the #RHOA reunion show part 1 was very entertaining and sad at the same time.


 Check back next week where I will give you all things housewives.  Same place Same time!  Until then thanks for reading and tell a friend to check me out :)  PLEASE COMMENT BELOW LET'S GET A CONVO GOING!


                                                                                                     *Two Fingaz*
                                                                                                             -Jare

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Morning Tea!

It's been a while and although I don't have a big following, I know some of you were wondering why...

LET'S HAVE TEA!


To all of my good people out there I just want to say hello and hope that all is well.  I have spent a little time away from social media because I decided to fast during Lent.  For those of you who don't know I am a Christian and I am a firm believer in Jesus Christ.  Not perfect in any way, I knew that I needed to take time to myself to gather some thoughts and even gain new ideas about my life and the direction I would like to see it go.  I have prayed and I have asked God to continue to bare with me in my life struggles and be with me in my triumphs the same.  I hope that the things that I do in life are being blessings to others in some way or another as I have been blessed so much by God and his people that are in my life.  People constantly praise me for my talents and infinitely have faith in my capabilities where I often doubt myself the most.  I am grateful to have such a loving and caring family/circle of individuals who love the way they do and I am working on ways to reciprocate that same kind of love and care every day of my life.


Now that I have taken some time to myself and worked more on my personal relationship with God, I feel comfortable enough to return to social media and pursue what I feel is my life's journey or my Greater Destiny!  I hope that I can reach people that need to be reached.  I pray that I can touch hearts.  I will be supportive to others and I will believe in myself more.  We live in an imperfect world where we all want to be perfect even if we know we will never be.  I will continue to blog and entertain my good people as long as you will have me.  The support is always appreciated and will never go unnoticed.  Tell a friend to tell a friend what JAREBEARSAYS!! Let's all grow together.



This tea was soothing and calming today yall!  Until next time...  Be blessed and remember to be a blessing :)


                                                                                                        Two Fingaz
                                                                                                                -Jare

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The Real Housewives of New Jersey goes to court!!!

#RHONJ star Theresa Giudice and husband Joe have officially plead guilty to fraud charges against them on Tuesday morning.  I know that the extreme house wife fans were just waiting for this day while the couple was probably dreading it.  Both Theresa and Joe are looking at the possibility of jail time of at least 2 years! Did anyone see this coming??

courtesy of TMZ.com

Teresa and Joe Giudice just pled guilty in their massive money fraud case -- and will likely be heading to prison.

The couple agreed to plead guilty this morning in NJ as part of a plea deal -- in which Teresa is expected to face 21 to 27 months in prison ... while Joe could get 46 months.  Joe, an Italian citizen, also faces deportation.

We're told Teresa pled guilty to 4 counts (including conspiracy to commit wire fraud and bankruptcy fraud) and Joe to 5 counts (same as Teresa, plus failure to file tax returns).

Teresa and Joe were initially indicted on a total of 41 criminal counts last year -- all between 2001 and 2011.

Among their alleged crimes -- prosecutors claim the couple used fake pay stubs, tax returns and W-2 forms to inflate their incomes and obtain nearly $5 million in mortgages and other loans. They also allegedly hid money they got from "Real Housewives" and other business ventures after filing for bankruptcy in 2009.

The couple will be sentenced at a later date.

Full report courtesy of New York Daily News!

Morning tea!

*cheers* To the start of a wonderful week.   Now let's have some tea!

We all love a good peace of gossip right?? If you don't then >>>STOP READING HERE<<<  Okay unless you've been under a rock then you have heard about the recent separation of R&B singer Robin Thicke and wife of 8 years, actress Paula Patton.  Well it's been all over the tabloids, social media, and entertainment news.  The two separated when Paula decided that she wanted out.  Many have said that it is because of Robin's new-found popularity after the success of his hit single blurred lines featuring rapper T.I.. I  don't know if I'm the only one who realizes this, but I'm beginning to think that people only based their opinions on what's going on in the moment.  The reason I say that is because Robin has been popular LONG before blurred lines was released!!  I mean does anyone remember that Lost without you was a hit in 2007?  Any-who...A lot of folk are speculating that Robins fame is going to his head and he has been hanging out late and partying too hard.  Some even go as far as to say that Paula is pissed about the performance at the 2013 VMAs where Robin had a freak show with the likes of Hannah Montana  Miley Cyrus.    

JAREBEARSAYS that a lot of this may have pissed the actress off, but I also feel like there is always a lot more going on behind the scenes that we as an audience have no idea about.  Everyone is quick to say what they think is happening, but no one ever really knows.  WELL ONE THING I DO KNOW is that Robin recently had a show in D.C. and he took to the stage professing his love for his wife and told the crowd "I'm trying to get my girl back."  The crowd seemed supportive, but I'm sure some of the screams were of the lusty women who hope he and his wife never get back together. (shade much?)  As a fan of both talents what Imma say next may be a little on the obvious side, but this is my tea party right? lol  I personally hope that they can work through their problems, get back to happy, and stay married.  I believe in vows and all of that good stuff, but I also believe that nothing worth having comes easy and when you have been married as long as these two have that's not something to throw away.  What a lot of people don't know is the couple have actually been an item since they were 15 years old!!!  Robin should maybe take some time off from his busy tour, and since Paula isn't really that busy...NO SHADE... they can maybe take to a couples retreat or something modern like that.  I wish them nothing but the best.  Those true Hollywood love stories are always ones to be admired.  Hopefully the spark can be reignited.  Until then I will keep following this story and I know you, my good people will as well :)

Well, my cup is running low, but the tea is never all the way gone.  Meet me here next time and I will have a pot ready to pour.  Be sure to invite a friend!

                                                                                                 *Two Fingaz*

                                                                                                          -Jare

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Oscar Talk! (2014 Academy Awards)

If you are a huge celeb buff like myself, obsessed with all things entertaining, then you were up past 11:00 pm last night engrossed in all things Oscar!  The Academy Awards went off without a hitch.  The stars stepped out yesterday evening with enough glam for all of Hollywood to see.  Every year we look forward to award season and what the stars are going to bring to the table in the fashion department but I don't think anything ever fully prepares us for the red carpet of Oscar night!!!

From Jennifer Lawrence to Sandra Bullock, and Will Smith to Robert Deniro,   celebs were dressed to the nines!   As far as I was able to see from my television screen, not many disappointed last night.  I know that we all have our favorites and sometimes it can be challenging to choose just one so I am going to give my choices for best dressed women and men of the evening.


Jada Pinkett-Smith

Although not a nominee, Jada showed up with husband Will by her side, and she was STUNNING!  This light pink Versace number was very elegant and showed just how much class a woman can have even if she isn't the guest of honor.  Congratulations on your look Jada.  You are indeed a fashionista!!!



Bette Midler

Dressed like the true diva that she is, Bette almost made it as my favorite of all of the women last night!  She arrived to the red carpet rocking a red floral Reem Acra design that accentuated her curves and gave her the look of class she carries so  well.  Bette performed for the first time at the Oscars.  She did  the song "wind beneath my wings."




Lupita Nyong'o

There are many words that can be used to describe this beautiful young lady, but I'm only going to use one...WINNER!!! Yes Lupita not only brought home the Oscar for her category but she takes home the fashionista of the season award if I do say so myself!  Lupita was gliding down the red carpet in this light blue Prada gown that she and her stylist worked together to choose for her for the evening.  Lupita has failed to disappoint one time during this awards season and I know that everyone agrees with me on that.




Leonardo Dicaprio

Leo was nomintaed last night but did not bring home the Oscar.  Many were disappointed, but I'm sure Leo was proud to be nominated in a category with such prestigious actors.  We all know that the talent was overflowing in that theater and he was among.  He donned a black Dior tuxedo and walked the red carpet as gracious as a man could!



Matthew Mcconaughey

Matthew Mcconaughey forced all men to step their game up last night.  Not only did he bring home the Oscar for for best supporting actor in Dallas buyers club, but he also accepted his award with one of the best speeches of the night.  I don't know how Kevin Hart would feel though about him stealing his famous line "alright, alright, alright" but he definitely stole the show in his black & white Dolce & Gabbana tux!


Jared Leto

Jared is definitiely my top pick for best dressed male last night!!  He wore an amazing Saint Laurent tux with a red bow tie, and studded buttons down his shirt.  I think he showed all men that you can be classy when the show calls for it.  His lovely locs didn't even hurt his look.  Jared was definitely best dressed last night and he dedicated his golden statue to his mother who looked just as amazing!




Ellen Dengeneres was the hostess with the mostess at last night's Academy award show!  She was hilariously funny as usual, and kept the guest alive!  Ellen was in the business of breaking records yesterday and that is exactly what she did! Unofficially the best to host the show yet! (my opinion) Ellen snapped a group selfie and wanted everyone to take to twitter so that they could RT or retweet the photo.  She brokedown twitter and broke the record of most retweeted photo that was once held by POTUS Barack Obama!!!! Can you believe that???  over 1.4 million retweets within an hour of posting!  She also ordered pizza and had it delivered to the theater where she passed out slices on paper plates to the hungry celeb guest!! WHO DOES THAT?

Here are just a few of the winners in case you missed them.

best actor in a supporting role:                                               jared leto

best actress in a supporting role                                             lupita nyong'o

best costume design                                                                the great gatsby

best documentary feature                                                      20 feet from stardom

best cinematography                                                              gravity

best animated feature                                                             frozen

best foreign language film                                                     the great beauty

best make up and hair styling                                               dallas buyers club

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