K. Michelle My Life (She's Baaaaacccckkkkkk)

Kimberly Pate  aka K. Michelle is back on the TV screen.  This time ON HER OWN SHOW!

Thank you for this VH1.  "K. Michelle My Life" aired last night and for a season premiere it was on point!

 K introduced us to her new life in New York City.  She even introduced us to her son.  It is clear that she is trying a new approach to life and wants to reveal her more pleasant side.  K has expressed how she wants to be a bit different when dealing with the people around her.  Furthermore she wants to change the way she deals with people in the industry.  With that said she also did not fail to remind us of her past with some clips of previous experiences on reality TV.  To me that shows growth, and it is refreshing to see someone who can recognize their issues instead of denying everything all of the time like some other reality stars we know.


K Michelle kicked off her series with her friend Paris and make up artist/friend Jonathan.  Paris and Jonathan were not hard to immediately fall in love with.  They seem to be really good friends to K, and we all know good friends are hard to come by.  Paris is a pretty girl with mad energy.  She seems really fun and very
protective of K.  She also has that East Coast swagger that I live for being an East Coast guy myself! LoL
Jonathan appears to be very down to earth and trustworthy!  Seeing the person who makes my fave look even more gorgeous everyday is pretty cool.  He ain't hard on the eyes either!!!

But ummmmmmm Tracy tho!!!

OK so I am not one to straight bash someone I don't know personally so I wont.  Ok sometimes I will but not this time!  Tracy is K's friend who she fell out with because Tracy was spending K's money without permission.  That would be called a thief.  Tracy claimed that K was there while she used her card, but K says she had no idea and she was obviously pissed off about.  After not speaking to Tracy or accepting her calls, she finally decided that in order to get her dog back from Tracy she would have to deal with the situation at hand.

Jonathan, being the peacemaker decided that to keep K calm he would mediate the situation but when Tracy brought the dog over some hell did break loose!  At first Tracy didn't want to admit her wrongs which pissed K. Michelle all the way off.  K snapped at Tracy when Tracy tried to bring up K's past, which had absolutely nothing to do with their problem.  After some yelling and harsh words Tracy folded under the pressure and exited K's house.  Jonathan ran after her to get her to grow up and face her problem so that she could attempt to mend her friendship with K.  After what appeared to be a sincere apology from Tracy, K was able to calm down and even agreed to allow a homeless Tracy to stay with her.

 K Michelle is proving that she values friendships and that she also demands to be respected!  Who doesn't want those traits??

I am really looking forward to the rest of this season.  Next Monday can't get here fast enough.  Oh yeah and why my girl only get 30 minutes VH1????  WE WANT MORE K!!!!!!!  CTFU  Ok I'm out for now!  TTY guys Later!  Don't forget to tell a friend that...

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K. Michelle - #AWBAH Official Album Trailer

K. Michelle

"Anybody Wanna Buy A Heart"

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Tiny & Shekinah's Weave Trip (Bourbon Street Takeover!!!!)

Tiny and Shekinah have been on a hilarious journey during their Weave Trip.  The ladies have been up to their usual friendly fighting, but have been having an adventure none the less!

Shekinah & Tiny

They have decked out an amazing bus and transformed it into a mobile hair salon.  On last nights episode the duo stopped in Louisiana.  Their main goal was to throw a Mardis Gras party on the historically famous Bourbon Street.  While out dining on some of New Orleans famous beignets, Tiny and Shekinah were recognized by a fun group of girls who were part of a bridal party.  They were happy to meet the girls and even invited the ladies to come and party with them the next day.  What was more exciting for Tiny and Shekinah was the fact that Shekinah had her first opportunity to do some hair on the bus.  Although the women weren't Shekinah's usual clientele,  she was able to style the ladies hair and the clients were very pleased with the outcome.

So far so good Tiny and Shekinah.  This show is giving us more of what we love about these fun loving Divas!!!  Their personalities shine through in an amazing way.  Unlike a lot of other reality stars,  these two best friends are not afraid to be themselves.  They stay true to who they are and find a way not to let the shade of the industry turn them into "fake friends" or even turn them against each other.  There is definitely ratchetness all up in through the show #NoShade  but it is the ratchet that we love!!

JareBearSays that at the end of the day Tiny and Shekinah are proving that the are fabulous business women.  They  are clearly able to work together despite the bumps in the road! #NoPun  I am really enjoying this show.  I laugh more than a little bit every episode.  I'm still hoping to meet my girl Shekinah one day soon, but until then I will continue to follow what I believe is an amazing journey!!

Next Monday an all new episode airs on VH1!  If you haven't watched yet  YOU ARE MISSING OUT
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Hollywood Divas (You haven't seen shade 'til NOW!)

How shady are these Ladies?? Let me count the ways!!



1.  Elise is clearly the ultimate diva so far.  She has made it very clear that she is above all of the other actresses on the show.  This blows my mind because I always thought she was one of the corniest actresses on TV!!!! (Shady moment!)  Once Paula came to her with the project she had planned, Elise was very skeptical from the gate.  She was made aware that other women would be involved in the project and she wanted no involvement unless the women were on what she feels is her level in the industry.  tsk tsk tsk!  I'll get back to her!


2.  Golden Brooks met crossed paths with Countess Vaughn in an acting class.  Golden was exuding shade the moment she walked through the door and Countess turned around to greet her!!  I felt it if Countess didn't.  BUT WAIT...what's all the shade about boo...yall are in the same acting class  AND both of your old shows are on rerun SO WHAT'S THE TEA GOLDEN???  Somebody help me understand.  The two ladies were put together in an improv scenario and it was not hard to tell that the ladies took it up a notch.  They were both showcasing good talent, but they were coming for each other and from my point of view Miss Golden started the reading session!  Countess is no amateur though because as subtle as it may have seemed, she through jabs right back to Golden EASY!

3.  Lisa Wu GIRRRRRRRLLLLLLLLL I know you packed your boxing gloves for this trip to LA!!!  Now most of yall may know that Lisa was one of the original Housewives of Atlanta.  What many don't know about her is that she is from California and has worked in the industry for many years.  These actresses cannot take that she has been invited to join them for Paula's project.  You know coming from "reality tv" and all.  They didn't give the girl a chance at first meeting.   It was a mess how rude they were!!


4.  I was shocked to find out Paula was living in a motel with her husband and son!!!  I thought she was well off.  I mean I do realize she hasn't had too much recent success, but I just assumed she was one of those actresses who took some time to work behind the scenes.  WHERE DOES THE MONEY GO???? She has put in a lot of work during her career!  I was baffled!  Miss thang needs to get it together though.  I am so confused at why she would want to bring all of these women together and then be shady toward them all at the same time.  It seems as though she is bitter towards 2 out of four of the women so why did she bring them on??  That just seems a little weird to be but whatever works for her I guess.

5.  I don't know about you guys but I was extremely happy to see Countess back on tv!  I love her through it all.  It would be amazing to see her get her career back on track.  People still love and support her, but it is definitely time for some new roles and Kim is a great actress.  I pray that her confidence level can be restored and that she can be happy with her self because it is sad to see anyone struggle with self acceptance and not fitting in.  I just hope these girls don't get too rude to her because she already seems uncomfortable around them.  They are a little bourgeoisie and they seemed to ignore her a lot when they were all together.  Honestly I think that is sad because she paved the way for all of their careers!!!

This show could be a train wreck!  I mean when will these divas learn that whenever you sign up to do a show like this that means you are all on the same level!!! Now it is your job to work together to come up!!!  The black community in entertainment need to really become more graceful.  Cliques and groups are understandable because that is just a natural thing that happens with the human race.  People just need to learn to be more respectful and helpful.  Maybe that's a dream world, but all of these women were dreamers before they were stars and the made things happen.  It's time to start making things happen again.  More heads are better than one so they might as well join forces and get their power back!  Hollywood waits for no one, but fans do and fans want to see good spirited people!  Don't disappoint us Divas!


First episode was deep!!  Hope you guys enjoyed this review :)  Until next time...

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Love & Hip Hop Hollywood (There is some love in Hip Hop!)

I'mma dive right in!!!

WHEN will certain women learn.  Berg could not be making it anymore clear that he wants no relationship with Hazel E.  He doesn't want a relationship with anyone for that matter!!  She didn't see that he had to get drunk to even sleep with her. THIS IS SOME SAD ish!  Then the chick had to to wake up to him being in the next room instead of boo loving with her.  Well it gets to the point where you stop being mad at the guy and start being mad at the girl.  LEAVE HIS ASS ALONE!!!  If you looking for love and to be held down then you need to look somewhere else Hazel E dang!  I'm fed up with that nonsense.  How in the world do you sit on camera crying about a dude who has told you time and time again he isn't settling down.  There is weak and there is dumb.  I'm not name calling I'm just saying what's out there.  You guys can determine what to do with the words.  ;)  

Omarion's momma got to come better.   How do you show up to a young woman's baby shower and totally disrespect her.  Why couldn't Momma O (that's what Imma call her) just stay at home if she was't feeling it.  Apryl seems very strong, but why should she have to stress when she is however many months pregnant and at her own damn shower???  That just floors me that people are so inconsiderate.  It's your son's child in there Momma O!!!  Get it together. Apryl is better than most people I know because "I love you babe, but your mom has to vacate the premises.  She is team WAY too much.  A person who is ill and acts like that makes it hard for you to even feel bad about them being sick.  Yall can correct me if yall think I'm wrong, but my compassion would go out of the window when the disrespect started!  

Fizz & his girl seem to be doing pretty well.  Fizz is stepping up and seems to be really relationship oriented.  It is not hard to understand why his girl would be a little hesitant about becoming a family with another womans child.  It is a huge responsibility and she should be allowed some time to decide.  I will say this though.  Fizz you have let the world know that she has been unfaithful to you once so now we are looking at her with different  eyes than we were last week.  She may be worried about the baby momma drama, but if he is wearing his heart on his sleeve as it appears then he needs to be careful and make sure he is protecting himself and his son.  

Morgan Morgan Morgan!!!  The typical reality show trouble maker.  She is the passive aggressor and two faced chick.  I guess I can't be too mad at her since she knows her role and plays the part.  If she wasn't starting mess pretending to cover it in "bringing the girls together"  she would have no relevance on the show.  Most shows need their Morgan, as annoying as she may be!

The little love triangle between Mally and the two chicks we don't know is just pathetic.  The main reason is because this dude is not even hot!  I mean not to be fighting over especially.  I don't even know what else to say about that situation because both ladies got played and until they realize that & stop pointing the finger at each other, they won't have a clue!  Sad I know...

IF THAT GIRL MOVES IN WITH SOULJAH BOY #nuffsaid

Same time next week!  

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R&B Divas LA ( It ain't ovahhhhh yet!)

Finally caught up on Pt. 2 of the "LOVELY"  R & B Divas LA Reunion Special!!  What a messy good mess!!!... NOT REALLY THOUGH.   It is actually quite sad to see the situation at hand because all of the Divas are truly lovable and respectable women.  For these reasons it is pretty hard for me to understand why egos cannot be put aside in order to get some good work done.  It is my opinion that these ladies along with most of today's people in entertainment, need to learn when to fall back from social media.  All of the Divas have their own set of following and fans for different reasons.  When a bunch of people you don't even know are telling you how great you are and how they feel about you word for word everyday, that can definitely have an effect on what you think of yourself.  I believe that a lot of artist are influenced this way, which is why they end up bumping heads based on feelings of status rather than professionalism and a kind heart.

I don't believe that the ladies are wrong for feeling ill towards Chante Moore, because it was more than clear that Chante rubbed them the wrong way.  I think that Chante's bark is bigger than her bite, and she barked in one too many directions.  Now that the barking is coming back it's coming from a pack of wolves (just a metaphor!)  and she was CLEARLY not prepared for what she pretty much conjured up.  Sometimes a chihuahua can be very feisty vs another pup, but place a chihuahua in the ring with five pitbuls and the TACO BELL dog doesn't stand a chance.  Chante was going through somethings and that can bring out the worst in a person, but it seems that Chante has the biggest ego of all of the ladies because of her careers twenty year span.  That is all well and good, but when your last hit was almost twenty years ago..... *sips tea*

I mean I'm STILL trying to figure out why Chrisette joined the show.  I'm beginning to think maybe she has some money to pay back somewhere or something because I thought all of her albums were very successful!  I mean maybe she needed to expand her fan base, because I do know that a lot of people I know were not listeners of her music BUT I LOVE HER MUSIC.  It is also probably very safe to say that she has a whole new group of fans added to her following and they are probably either 7 years old or in the looney bin! #NoShade IJS! lol


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My girl Lil Mo was turned up at the reunion, maybe a little too turnt if I do say so myself.  I bangs with Mo heavy, but I felt like her cold shoulder could have been a little warmer.  Chante deserved some backlash no doubt, but when you consider someone a friend, and they mess up, you really have to reevaluate everything before you just go full on mean girl towards the person.  I understood Mo's pain from how she felt treated and ignored by Chante.  That is when she should have left the cameras and the other ladies behind and went to talk to her girl on some "this is me and you bish" type ish!  Sometimes a group of people being mad together isn't the best solution to trying to preserve a friendship.  Honestly all of these ladies could still maintain a great working relationship because with all of the anguish Chante has caused.  She has been hurt as well, and she is clearly open to rekindling.  You can see it all in her face.  She just now needs to remain humble, and ALSO realize that she is not the most popular girl in high school, but an R & B Diva and as long as she is on the show with the other Ladies, they are all equals players on the squad!  SQUAD UP AND GET COINS LADIES SHEESH!!!

DM To Claudette (in case she reads this)
Claudette maybe your silent but deadly ways are what is needed sometimes.  In all of it I understand your spirit, because you have not changed not one bit.  You stand firm in wanting the ladies to come together and

@MyClaudette

you also maintain your position as the most respectful.  Thank you for not being rude and catty.  It goes a long way.  If Chrisette can't tell the difference between "you don't know me"  and "YOU DON'T KNOW ME"  then she wouldn't have been prepared for what you really had to offer in that aspect anyway.  It seems like you scared the SUGAR HONEY ICED TEA out of her without even being aggressive so I couldn't imagine how Chrissette would have reacted if you would have been loud or even stood up!!!  Just my little   observation.


Well Big up's to Wendy Williams for asking all of the juicy questions we all want to know the answers to.  The Diva's have landed a third season so I guess we will be seeing them all together again next year.  Until then guys keep following ME @JareBearSays as I will continue to bring you the reviews on the latest reality tv shows and the blog posts on IG/Twitter/Tumblr & FB!!!  You may not hear it all here first but just know........

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Mila J - My Main ft. Ty Dolla $ign

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New music video from the sexy and talented Miss Mila J!!!